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playing tomodachi life and was trying to make sans then thought its be funny to make a coke addict

this is his second time giving me cold pills

it genuinely disgusts me with the amount of hate that tmen/mascs go through in the QUEER COMMUNITY

so many in the same community that claims to be accepting just hate on us

trans men/mascs are so villainized and forgotten within the trans community and for what?

and the thing is,

the way they often hate on us is the *exact* way homophobes and transphobes act

i once saw a tweet saying that trans men aren’t minorities and benefit from the patriarchy COMING FROM ANOTHER TRANS PERSON

its almost as they forget that the same way that cis people dont see them as their gender ALSO DONT SEE AS AS OURS

its almost as they forget that some of us have uteruses and are currently being affected by the political climate that tr🤡mp and red states are doing to remove abortions and things that generally protect us

just because you believe that every fucking trans man thats comfortable saying afab is a theyfab doesnt give you the fucking right to be a dickhead

plus, youre wrong too LMAO

there are certain situations where someone may use their agab acronym to explain something because, SHOCKER, some people dont KNOW a better term to use that outright explains what they mean

ie: ME. when I didnt know what to use/say, i used to mention my agab!!! now that i KNOW what to say (i was raised as a woman), i dont fucking treat others like shit for NOT SAYING THE SAME THING

this isnt the fucking oppression olympics, its being aware of the things that trans people go through and being THERE FOR THEM

NOT devaluing their experiences AND the current things they may go through just fucking because theyre a man

you arent apart of the LGBTQ+ with the rest of us if you invalidate ANY of the letters. INCLUDING TRANS PEOPLE

INCLUDING SUB GENRES OF TRANS PEOPLE (ie: tfem, tmasc, nonbi, agender, genderfluid, etc)

like anyone who does this fucking sucks

genuinely

youre a shitty person if you treat another trans person like shit just because you don’t understand them

because that’s exactly like how transphobes act LMAOO

people who think that transfems are inherently "unsafe" around transmascs and that transmascs are a "threat" to transfems:

are t4t transhet transfems a joke to you?

are t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasc family members a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasculine children a joke to you?

are transfems who have transmasculine friends a joke to you?

you HAVE to acknowledge we exist. you can't keep pretending we don't.

i don't know how else to break it to you that there are many, many transfems who love transmascs for a lot of different reasons, but if you seriously can't take a second to consider how you're hurting a ton of transfems by shitting on transmascs, i really have no other words for you. care about the transfems who love transmascs. we exist. stop pretending we don't. we are out here and and the transmascs we love don't deserve to feel like shit. it doesn't empower transfems to make them and the transmascs they love feel like shit. stop this.

so i decided to make kimbap and ended up making 7 rolls…. i ate one and a half and got FULL 😭

wish i was on hrt rn because then id be able to eat it all 💔

Trans men/Transmascs: "Transphobes hate us and they don't see us as real men, they see us as a threat to patriarchal masculinity and they reduce us to our AGAB. This impacts us in many ways that cause us to perpetually experience misogynistic and transphobic violence in ways that usually allow for plausible deniability because the perception of manhood is centered on cis manhood. Transition does not grant us relief or escape from this like some people claim it does as long as we live in a transphobic society."

Transandrophobes that the larger queer community doesn't criticize for some reason: "why are you misgendering yourself, why are you reducing yourself to your biology, focus on real issues"

Okay, time for some house cleaning. If you disagree with any of these then get off my blog

Trans women are women

Trans men are men

Nonbinary people are nonbinary

Bisexuals, pansexuals, and omnisexuals are valid

Arospec and acespec people are valid

Trans women deserve to be included in women spaces

Trans lesbians deserve to be included in lesbian spaces

Trans men deserve to be included in men’s spaces

Gay trans men deserve to be included in gay spaces

Black lgbtq+ people deserve to be included in our community

Indigenous lgbtq+ people deserve to be included in our community

LGBTQ+ people of all races deserve to be included in our community

You’re never too old to transition or discover your sexuality

Respect is not given but earned

Polyamorous relationships are valid

Monogamous relationships are valid

And lastly, but sure not leastly,

IT IS NEVER OKAY TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST SOMEONE FOR THINGS OUT OF THEIR CONTROL. RACE, SEXUALITY, GENDER IDENTITY, AGE, DISABILITY, ETC. AND THIS DOES INCLUDE DISCRIMINATION AGAINST PEOPLE SEEN AS THE STANDARDS

I pray this won’t lose me too many followers. Not because I care about followers but because I hope not many people disagree with this

my favorite part about joining discord servers (small ones) to make friends alone is theres 4 options that could happen

1) 60% chance the server is inactive / dead

2) 30% chance that it is active but no one responds to you/makes the effort to speak to anyone that isn’t already their friend (which defeats the purpose of having a public discord server for making friends…💀)

3) 5% chance its both active and the members in the old members actually makes an effort to talk to you but it slowly dies down

4) 5% chance its both active, the members actually make an effort to talk to you and it doesnt die down and you guys actually become friends

guess what im experiencing in the server ive been in for almost a month now LMAO

my blog was meant to be a roleplay / irl kinda thing and i chucked the roleplay aspect into the trash LMAO

im meant to roleplay as a siren confused about living on land which makes sense tbh for my age rn since im only 18 and now living life as an adult™

literally and people keep forgetting that they DONT care. yeah sure “hehe haha so funny theyre wrong and we’re all women now!!” like they know that they’re medically and scientifically wrong but it doesnt matter when, with enough power, in legal and governmental standings they can force their ideology into the truth. so yeah, right now theyre wrong about the scientific backing to their claims but legally? in the government eyes? they do not care. they had enough power to make this into reality whos to say they wont continue to make it that way?

i mean we’re already seeing people’s government ids being reverted back to their AGAB. they do not care yall. theyre already having their way with how they want us to be seen legally and in the governments eyes. they dont want us to exist.

stop focusing on the wrong things and realize that this is just one step towards erasing and eradicating us. read inbetween the lines. dont fall for the propaganda.

my take on the "trump said there's only two genders at conception but gotcha!! we're all female at conception!!" and the "MAGA is so obsessed with trans women in backgrounds but what about trans men? gotcha!!!" responses to right wing transphobia/trans erasure is that they don't care. MAGAs don't give a fuck about understanding nonbinary/intersex/trans people they just want us gone

It genuinely bothers me how almost nobody wants to talk about or acknowledge how disturbingly normalized it is to mock, devalue, and appearance-shame nonbinary folks online.

I hate being told it’s wrong for me to identify under the trans umbrella because I “don’t belong there”. I hate being misgendered and accused of “faking” and “attention-whoring” because I’m not androgynous and don’t feel dysphoric about my breasts. I hate being called a “theyfab” and having that term used to discredit me. I hate being told to censor my self-expression so I “don’t look like a stereotype”. I hate my preferred pronouns never being used because it/its is too “weird”. I hate being laughed at the very second I bring up neopronouns and xenogenders. I hate being subject to jokes about my chosen name. I hate having every single aspect of my identity and expression laughed at and mocked constantly because y’all hold such a fucked-up stereotype of nonbinary people as these 2016-esque SJW keyboard warrior caricatures and I hate watching people online giggling away at “Arson (they/star/bun) in the Discord groupchat” memes because cringe culture never died to them, they just chose a more “acceptable” target to project it onto.

im feeling down but theres nothing i want to do or buy i dont even wanna buy food which is something i always wanna do whenever im upset

was supposed to play overwatch with a discord server im somewhat active in but like no one showed

i hate having no friends. being alone is fun until youre reminded that youre truly alone

and like i really want to share the fact that im having bottom growth and have people tell me in that moment that theyre proud and happy of me but i have no one :’)

might just post it randomly to a discord server im in meant to tmen and get my validation from there

and im constantly like “i wish i had a bf” but i really dont wanna use dating apps they fucking suck

grindr is so damn scary and comes off as “scam the app” then i feel like shit using any other dating app i dont wanna swipe on ppl thats mean

idk. just sad and lonely rn