Just Got Gender Envy Towards Two Youtuber And Male Singers :/

fellow trans moots just a warning to block the person in the pic who genuinely doesn’t believe that trans men or anyone masc aligning can experience misogyny and believe that we are somehow the oppressors 💀

reminder to people who need to be explained it: TRANS men are STILL minorities. just because we are men does not negate the fact that we are TRANS. its in the same way that white people can experience racism but NOT systemic racism. trans men CAN be oppressors but CANNOT be SYSTEMIC OPPRESSORS due to the fact that WE ARE TRANS.

not only that, ANYONE can be an oppressor LMAO. only some can be a SYSTEMIC OPPRESSOR aka, WEALTHY CISHET WHITE MEN!! not even wealthy, cishet white men in GENERAL benefit from systemic oppression. someone like ME, a BLACK TRANS MAN will NEVER benefit from it. even if i werent black and was instead white, i NEVER WOULD. because i am TRANS. the man part does not matter because all they will look at is the TRANS PART.

may i remind you that trans men are affected by the reproductive rights issues going on currently? if i werent living in my state and i had been in like fucking texas and was assaulted? guess what? i wouldnt be able to get an abortion. and before you say “why didnt you remove your eggs”. 1) why am i expected to? 2) that’s expensive? lmao? and 3) i shouldnt have to have to remove my eggs to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. yall are forgetting that the issue of FORCED PREGNANCY is happening RIGHT NOW. but you dont care because it doesnt affect you.

so in the same way that us as trans men will never experience the issues trans women face, neither will trans women.

i keep seeing other trans people say stuff like this, a lot from certain transfems and its so disheartening to see people from our own community treat us like shit. infighting doesnt fix shit. you are making things worse especially for YOURSELVES by putting other trans people down. if i were to speak about other black people as if they were villians then i cannot be surprised when i am soon also treated like a villian. something something stones at glass house something something leopard eating face party. the trans community can talk about ALL our issues without making one group seem like shitty people just for existing, without putting them down.

you genuinely are no better than transphobes if you act like this. just because you’re trans does not mean youre not transphobic.

at the end of the day, we are still the minority because we are trans. at the end of the day when theyre trying to make us ILLEGAL, they will not care about how much hatred you’re putting out towards other trans people, like yes great! you helped them cause even more separating the trans community more! this is exactly what #they want so instead of helping each other, we are just pooling hatred so guess what! when they get rid of us, we wont be willing to help each other. youre acting just like an undercover fbi agent right now babes with this infighting talk.

for anyone who genuinely thinks this negatively about other fellow trans people, i beg of you to realize that this is exactly what they want. they want the infighting and hatred. and to play this game that became popular back in like 2015-2016

thank you lmao

anyone trying to argue w me will be blocked this is not a discussion. i will not argue with people who genuinely believe i am a shitty person JUST for wanting to be a man. this isnt LGBTQ+ positive yall this is T hatred.

these were posted by someone else but i wanted this on my blog too

the intersexism and transandrophobia combo continues !

fun fact: trans people cannot be oppressors because they have no structural power. that applies to trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people too. hope that helps.

Reminder that hermaphrodite ORIGINALLY referred to intersex human beings and is in fact never a neutral biological term. It's a slur. Stop saying it.

my issue with my anxiety is that the way i typically deal with it at home, i cannot do the same thing at work / in public.

its the reason why i want to start anxiety meds but my mom said that i should try looking at other coping mechanisms first before jumping into something that changes my brain chemistry (shes a nurse and shes for finding other ways to deal with issues before taking something that changes your brain chemistry. which i understand and agree with!!)

im just tired of the anxiety tbh i just wanna live a normal life without the constantly shaking, not being able to breathe properly, fear, etc.

"BRIDE- Dawn Langley Hall, whose sex was changed from male to female by surgery, placed a ring on the hand of her husband, John Paul Simmons" Jan. 23 (1969)

chat ima need yall to imagine somone

imagine a person, androgynous looking but if you had to choose, assuming youre thinking heteronormatively), see them as a guy and masculine

theyre black (very important when it comes to choosing my name tbh), nonbinary agender, usually has their afro (thats dyed blonde) out, will probably lock their hair soon

but they also love femininity, still dress feminine, and refers to themselves using the term “femboy”

whagt name do you vibe with for said person? thinking abt changing it bc my cousin makes fun of my current one a lot and my brother kinda makes fun of it

also, if you comment your own it needs to start with the letter s!! i dont want my initials to change lol

current preference is sage and soren tied for first and silas is in last place

waiting for the (late) bus to go to my driving lesson

if you’re cis and dont know what you can be doing right now, or even trans but not sure what you can do, this article is great

I’ve seen it too many times. It’s incredibly annoying now so I can’t just say nothing.

When someone calls out transandrophobia, anti-transmasculinity, whatever you’re inclined to call it, and the person who did it is a trans man or transmasc themselves? I need you to understand how deeply irrelevant that is.

Sometimes what you said was just harmful no matter who you are while saying it. Being part of the group being harmed doesn’t tell me that what you said was okay. It tells me you’ll throw yourself and the rest of your own community under the bus for a scrap of approval from the people who want you and everyone like you to get hit by a bus. I don’t know why you expect me not to either be more pissed off or just start to pity you.

“But I’m transmasc” cool so am I, now can we go back to talking about how fucked up it is for you to say what you just said?

yall im in my online class and MY LAPTOP CRASHED 💀💀💀

WTF 😭😭😭

Sex variant & GNC men are gender-marginalized. Period. As in, marginalized for being men. Manhood is not synonymous with cisgender patriarchal manhood. There are other forms of manhood and masculinity, and some of these are marginalized by patriarchy. Recognizing the marginalization of certain forms of manhood is not "calling them women" it is recognizing facts right in front of your fucking face.

Trans & intersex men are men, just not in the cis patriarchal way. And they are marginalized for being non-normative men, for reclaiming masculinity and making it into something non-oppressive. I'm tired of pretending I have any sort of inherent male privilege embedded in my soul as a GNC intersex man. Sure I'd have privilege SOMETIMES if I decided to buzz off all my hair, stop wearing the clothes I like, bind tighter, and I started performing patriarchal masculinity, but I'm not going to do that. Because that's not how I am a man. I tried doing that for a long fucking time and it wasn't me. And the treatment I got during that time was, while better than what I get now, still riddled with struggle. It isn't as if I can hide all my intersex traits.

So I ask, what fucking privilege do i have for being a man in the way I am right now? The privilege to be assaulted in bathrooms? The privilege of seeing the disgust on customer's faces at work when they hear how low my voice is in contrast with my appearance? The privilege of demanding to know my birth sex, and not believing me no matter my answer? The privilege of medical abuse? The privilege of people thinking they have a say in my gender identity? The privilege of people mocking my body? The privilege of being paid less than all my coworkers who work the same job? The privilege of sexual partners being disgusted at my body?

I'm not seen as a man in patriarchal society, I'm seen as a freak. And freaks don't have privilege.