Tw Grooming - Blog Posts

[TW Grooming mention]

It’s absolutely disgusting how the LITERAL CHILD GROOMER still has a platform, but that they use that platform to post shit like this without any repercussions.

[context, I did not make this video but he makes some really good points]

I love my ai!

TW// grooming, nsfw

i can't believe im making this post again but this is getting out of hand. @eechytooru is a groomer. and I'm making this post to warn the people in the welcome home fandom. I'm not that big into the fandom but i still want to spread awareness.

@eechytooru went by another name in the OSC - @/teenbeeny

back in 2020, i was 12 and new to the object show community but i saw bfb fanart by a person named @/teenbeeny (eechytooru). they where 16 but said they were turning 17 soon we talked in instagram dms but they would talk about object show p*rn and we would have nsfw rps but the worst part, they drew p*rn my sona (i was 12-13 at the time) and her sona (she was 16-17 at the time) together a couple of times. but in 2022, ive grown and i was 14, my friends helped me make a callout post on twitter and im thankful it worked. after a few months i didn't see her again but i soon started to hyperfixtate on tawog so i looked up fanart - and i found @/teenbeeny going by a fake name, eechytooru, trying not to get caught.

now, tawog fandom helped me to spread awareness and got her deactivate their tumblr account but that wasnt enough and now they're posting welcome home fanart and getting popular with a AU that they made - the EnA AU

again, im making this post to spread awareness. to this day she still hasnt given me a apology and claims that it was my fault and that i started all of this.

tweets that have proof:

(tw// nsfw mention) twitter callout post

tumblr account callout post

please reblog to spread awareness in the welcome home fandom!

Raise Awareness + Warning

This is a post being made regarding the tumblr users @/thestubbornscientist and @/milsoms, and their dangerous behavior. This is not a call to harassment in any way; please do not attempt to contact these individuals and simply block them for your own safety. The intended purpose of this callout is to protect minors in the Don’t Starve and Don’t Starve Together community. This is mostly the community that this is being used to warn others of these two individuals, as they were most prevalent and active in that community. Though both of them have moved on towards other fandoms as well.

A document is linked within this post that details the claims along with substantial evidence backing them up. Please read this in its entirety before making any personal acts or judgements yourself.

TW: NSFW, grooming, explicit descriptions of v/ore, oncest/selfcest, dubcon, gore, guro (gore NSFW), pro-shipping, omegaverse

https://komystda.tumblr.com/post/649945034451550208/httpsdocsgooglecomdocumentd1leb5infkwr0q7p2

Been seeing a lot of Sasuke hate on my fy on tiktok and would just like to remind everyone that he was

1- forced to rewatch the death of his parents by his brother for over a thousand times when he was 6

2- told by the same brother who killed his parents to seek revenge

3- groomed by an experienced cult leader since 13

And that's not even touching the implied stuff (coming back home to no one when it used to have an entire family there,seeing his family's corpses,etc..) so maybe we should cut him some slack and stop comparing him w/ Naruto and Gaara (who didn't really deal all that well with his trauma before Naruto to begin with)

also, following this up but way darker— i was talking w my bf and we realized somehow all 3 of them got groomed in some way. lord, help this mess of a family.

spoilers under the cut: trigger warnings for subjects like abuse, and grooming (the action of attempting to form a relationship with a child or young person, with the intention of sexually assaulting them or inducing them to commit an illegal act such as selling drugs or joining a terrorist organization.)

kanna reveals that kugie was being romanced by a “mature/adult” woman in the original japanese version of your time to shine. sara is still called “underage” by mishima when keiji thinks about drinking with her, so i assume the simulation takes place with everyone at their same ages as in the death game.

shin was groomed by sou, whether you see their relationship as romantic or not. i personally see it with slight “romantic” undertones due to the excess of photos of shin being placed around sou’s house (possibly one sided as shin, at his most affectionate points with sou, states he viewed him as a sibling or an anti-hero) but either way… it was definitely abusive. shin’s ai reveals that sou was not even a student at his school, just a random grown ass man attending.

(side tangent and personal head cannon : i wonder how much coke sou was snorting to be able to balance high school, being a “psychologist”, “prison guard”, cashier at the ice cream shop, shin’s “friend”, a “nurse”, meeting with the yabusames, working for asunaro… like, half of their funding probably goes to his booger sugar because no way you’re doing all that without speed.)

but back to the main point, he specifically picked an emotionally vulnerable teenage boy with no friends, making it easy to groom him with the intention of forcing him into the death game. shin was very uncomfortable throughout the time they shared. during the lantern scene he says they spoke between computer monitors when at his house due to how uncomfortable he felt with him, and became even more disturbed upon seeing sou peek from between them.

when clicking photos of him he claims sara is “making him remember the bad parts”. he shows the most disdain in the chapter when upon inserting the fake id card into the control room several smiling photos of him appear.

i believe one of the most heartbreaking things shin has said is when confesses relief at the sou’s death despite the loneliness of losing his only friend.

i really hate the romanticization of their relationship. it’s sad seeing a complex character have clear grooming overlooked by gooner-fans (chainsaw man fandom is rlly bad with this as well) and the “i love toxic yaoi” crowd. shin is a victim who deserved much better. he was, at best, a kid who was groomed into joining a death game due to the trust he put into his first “friend”. at worst, there’s a possibility he was groomed romantically or sexually as well.

i do like their relationship. i find it incredibly interesting from a psychological perspective— but the romanticization of it genuinely takes away from a well-written character.

upon taking sou’s name, shin also took upon himself the man’s personality. believing that a psychotic, sadistic, and morally dubious demeanor would save him. but upon doing so— he continued the cycle of violence (fortunately ending it out of genuine love for his victim in chapter 2.) he latched onto the weakest of the group, manipulating kanna to his will with the sacrifice card.

i frequently wonder if he did this because he saw some of himself in kanna. that same timid highschool boy that was manipulated by sou hiyori, the man he has “become”.

regardless of his later intentions and affection, he originally sought to groom her into becoming someone he could use, bend to his will, make part of his plans.

but in chapter two, he broke the cycle. he found himself becoming affectionate towards kanna— and her self-sacrifice distressed him to the point that he was willing to die for her.

that’s one of the reasons i find his name reveal so perfect— we learn of shin tsukimi when we first see that true side of himself that he tried to “kill”. sou hiyori would never care for another human being the way shin tsukimi does. sou hioyri would never feel empathy for his playthings and feared death until the end, while shin tsukimi died at peace giving himself up for kanna.

tragically — even if kanna had been the sacrifice, he was prepared to die. he knew she would choose sara to live alongside her as her surrogate sister.

shin tsukimi broke the cycle, and i find it so tragically beautiful.

favorite thing about kugie + greenblings is somehow— despite the biological siblings being separated and kugie not even being related to them… all three of them ended up gay.

shin and kugie are pretty self explanatory, but kanna gives me gay vibes as well. (this is NOT shipping in any way, just general observation) her blushing sprite is only used when sara says she smells nice in 2-2, if i remember correctly. and i don’t even know what to say about the hot springs scene… she’s visually checking her out and nobody knows wtf happens when the screen goes black. kanna in the hot tub cutscene photo always reminds me so much of the feeling of changing in locker rooms in middle school when you first start to question your sexuality— poor girl. also, either intentionally or unintentionally grabbing reko’s ass in the emotion route 😭

like, its not due to influence between them as kanna only recently found out about kugie’s girlfriend pre-death game and neither of them knew shin. it’s not genetics, since kanna and shin aren’t directly related to kugie.

just genuinely blows my mind how ALL OF THEM ended up gay.

…honestly, that could be said for most of the cast though

"A 17-year-old isn't much different than an 18-year-old" YANDERE DEV YOU ARE IN YOUR MID 30S.

And a 35-year-old hypothetically being with an 18-year-old would still be disgusting as fuck. 18-year-olds are barely out of high school themselves.

As a grooming victim: I'm sorry for the victim of yandere dev

on another note: HOLY SHIT that was a hilarious read.

Like The "I got attached to the first girl who was nice to me" fucking is there a text book for groomers? because thats exactly what TENSA SAID TO ME!

Like I haven't grown since i was 12. and trust me I act different now that I'm almost 20 that I look older. Like if you put 12 year old me and me now, we'd look identical but you could still tell that one was older.

mentions of sexual assault and grooming

nah because what is up with being confident in your memory that you were sexually assaulted (and you still are being sexually harassed and groomed btw) but the perpetrator shows basic human courtesy once and now you’re the delusional lying fuck.

Just to throw this out there

it was not and is not your fault they groomed you (yes even if you were seeking it out.)

it was not and is not your fault they abused you (yes even if you weren’t the best person at the time.)

you are a survivor not an abuser sweetheart

if you ever need anything my DMs are open

and yes this is a post made half for ourselves be self indulgent <33

Why is Aku missing an eye?

Since I made Aku’s reference sheet, you should have probably noticed that he’s missing his right eye, as well as having a few other scars.

I realized that I should probably explain why he doesn’t have an eye.

TW: ATTEMPTED MURDER, MUTILATION, NON-SEXUAL GROOMING

So, when Aku started middle school he became friends with another kid named Riku and they became friends since Riku liked the fact that Aku could play the violin and also since Aku didn’t have any other friends. After a few months of being friends it got to the point where Aku’s parents started letting Aku stay the night at Riku’s house and this is how Aku met Riku’s older brother, Ichiro. When they first met, Aku was almost twelve and Ichiro was seventeen however they both had something in common, they both liked the play the violin. After a few sleepovers, Ichiro offered to teach Aku how to get better at the violin and since Ichiro was older and in Aku’s mind “more experienced” than him, he accepted the offer. Almost every day after school and every weekend, Aku would go over to visit Riku and Ichiro, but moreover to visit Ichiro so they could play violin together and they both became close, Aku even started calling Ichiro “Ichi-man” as a nickname.

After a few years, Aku started playing violin more publicly and so the more popular he got in school because of it. Kids at school wanted to hear him play music all the time so much so that they were even willing to pay him, so Aku and Riku decided to make use of that and would split the money that Aku made so that they could have fun outside of school. However the more that Aku and Riku were hanging out and making money, the less time Aku and Ichiro were practicing violin together. Not to mention that it had been a few years at this point and so Ichiro is pushing twenty and Aku isn’t even in high school yet and so Ichiro started to believe that Aku is was avoiding him on purpose. When Aku did come over, Ichiro would basically hog all of Aku’s attention from Riku because they needed to “practice” and that he wanted Aku to be the best at violin as he could possibly be. In reality, Ichiro was jealous of his own brother and wanted all of Aku’s focus to be on him despite the fact that he knew that it was really, really strange that he was a legal adult and he was trying to be best friends with thirteen-year-old. Despite this, Aku gave Ichiro the benefit of the doubt because he believed that Ichiro just wanted the best for him even after Aku’s parents and Riku started to question Aku and Ichiro’s relationship.

What Aku didn’t know was that at this point, Ichiro was completely obsessed with him. Ichiro didn’t feel like he could connect with anyone on the same level as Aku because no one else shared the same passion that he and Aku had for violin. He believed that the only reason that Aku is as good at violin as he is was because he taught him everything that he knows, so to see him spend less and less time with him just to play violin for other people was a huge slap in the face to him. Ichiro felt like Aku was doing it on purpose, that he was intentionally trying to trigger him by not spending time with him, hanging out with Riku, playing violin to make money, in his mind it was all intentional so Aku could hurt him. Obviously, that wasn’t true and Riku tried to tell Ichiro that they were just trying to have fun and it was nothing personal but Ichiro didn’t believe him and told him that he was a horrible brother. After a month or two, Riku didn’t hang out with Aku as much and Riku never told him why. Even though he was still pretty popular, Aku still felt lonely because his best friend was now ignoring him for no reason. Eventually one night, Aku got a knock on his door and to his surprise it was Ichiro and Ichiro lied saying that Aku’s parents sent him here to watch him since they were going to be out this night, which they were so Aku believed him.

Aku didn’t remember a lot of what happened after that, but when he woke up, he was tied up in a chair in what looked likes to be his basement, with some cloth tied around his mouth, some blood dripping from the side of his head and a few cuts on his face. Ichiro was leaning against the door with a knife already coated in some blood, his blood to be exact, he walked closer to Aku and the only thing he could process being said to him as Ichiro brought the knife closer to his right eye was, “You deserve this..” After that, Aku completely zoned out, the only thing he could process was the pain he was feeling. When he finally came to, he was in a hospital bed and his face was covered in bandages and he felt like he couldn’t breathe. He could hear his parents arguing with Riku and Ichiro’s parents. However, those words that Ichiro told him before he zoned out stuck with him, he couldn’t stop thinking about them. He believed that it was his fault that everything happened..

This was actually reality, Ichiro had tried to kill him. In fact, he didn’t just try to kill him, he disfigured him and tortured him and then was going to kill him if his parents didn’t catch him before he did it. After that night he never saw Ichiro or Riku or any of their family again, but the memories were still with him. Aku knew that Ichiro went to jail, he knew that Ichiro probably hated him, he knew that Riku was probably traumatized, but despite that, Aku was the one who felt the most guilty about the whole situation. It was him and his talent that was the core problem behind what Ichiro did, Aku felt like he didn’t deserve to be known and loved for playing violin, so he stopped, he couldn’t even pick up a violin without thinking about what happened, however, it seemed that it was to late to ignore his talent. A few months after, his parents got a letter in the mail and it was addressed to Aku. When he opened it, the letter read…

From Hope’s Peak Academy, we accept you into our school as Aku Harusaka, The Ultimate Violinist.

(From Hope’s Peak Academy, we accept you into our school as Aku Harusaka, The Ultimate Violinist.)

This may be a hot take, but personally I don't see too much of a problem for underage people writing smut. I mean I get that it can get people groomed and whatnot, but other than that I genuinely don't see it being a big issue. Words are words in my opinion, and either way it's not going to get you rightfully arrested, or even in legal trouble if you do. It's not like real life underage sex. You won't just read a hardcover with smut and go out hunting for the author, will you? I don't know. I personally don't write it because I'm uncomfortable with making it, but that's my general thought about it. Please don't attack me for this, I just felt like typing my stance on it since there's been a lot of thoughts I have on it lately 😭

Hypersexuals who were traumatized by one event, I love you.

Hypersexuals who were traumatized multiple times, I love you.

Hypersexuals who grew up in traumatic environments, I love you.

Hypersexuals who were traumatized at a young age, I love you.

Hypersexuals who were traumatized at an older age, I love you.

Hypersexuals who are still in traumatic situations, I love you.

Hypersexuals who said no, I love you.

Hypersexuals who "agreed to it", I love you.

Hypersexuals whose actions are greatly affected by these experiences, I love you.

Hypersexuals who cope by making jokes about their trauma, I love you.

Hypersexuals who cope by venting about their trauma, I love you.

Hypersexuals who talk with "inappropriate" language, I love you.

Hypersexuals who get uncomfortable talking with that language, I love you.

Hypersexuals who engage in risky behavior, I love you.

Hypersexuals who are scared of intimacy, I love you.

Hypersexuals who show these parts of themselves, I love you.

Hypersexuals who hide these parts of themselves, I love you.

Hypersexuals who are trying to learn healthy intimate boundaries, I love you.

Hypersexuals who struggle with intimate relationships, I love you.

Hypersexuals, I LOVE YOU!

Your experiences are valid, they'll always be valid, and they do not make you less lovable.

had a guy ask me out recently.

VENT POST

hes like 24 and has known me since i was 17.

he literally asked how old i was when we met and when i told him i was 17 he was like "man, dating is hard these days"

i was at a convention that he was at like an hour before he asked me out (it was via text) and when my dad came to pick me up, this guy walked up to the car and introduced himself to my father.

i rejected this guy asap with ZERO hesitation

i reminded him that i am aroace and he KNOWS that

i wish i couldve said "no im taken" but i cant because he would know i wouldn't be talking about a real person. and he already judges me for being attracted to fictional characters, so i cant reveal that im a self shipper.

at the aforementioned convention, i hugged a friend we have in common. and this guy pulled the "aw wheres my hug" shit.

our friends blame his boundary issues on him being neurodivergent, but thats not an excuse for this level of shit. especially when the main person hes being weird to is ALSO neurodivergent.

he continuously pushes boundaries even after hes told to stop.

even after i told him "no, im aroace" he STILL tried pushing and was like "i dont need anything romantic, i just want a partner"

GOD IM SO PISSED

why do men always think that i owe them shit

i dont think im very attractive. definitely not conventionally attractive. but i ALWAYS have men be weird to me.

i hate it so much.

Warning post for Kallulily

This is a warning post for @/kallulily regarding an incident she was in that happened in January of this year. This is being brought up right now because Kallulily is modding for the Kirby Gijinka Rainbow Zine (as Mod Paintra), a large event in the Kirby community. As this incident happened on Twitter/X it’s not well known here and many continue to support Kallulily without knowing her morals or actions.

Trigger warnings for grooming, abuse, and mentions of NSFW, rape, feral, and incest content in certain links

The incident concerns Kallulily’s friend @/splitser on tumblr and @/splitsterart on twitter (known as “Mod”) being called out for grooming someone starting when the victim was 15 and they were 19-20. A callout was made for this. There were two docs made, both shown in the X link below, with one being explicit, and one being a censored version. Warning for mentions or explicit screenshots of NSFW, rape, feral, incest content being exposed to minors, depending on the document https://x.com/RustyDoodleBot/status/1749553958920577093

Mod would later put out a response to this callout. Despite claiming they don’t condone their own behavior, they gave the excuse of the minor “insisted on seeing [Mod’s] NSFW material”, dismissing their own blame from their inappropriate actions towards minors. 

In the document they portrayed the victim, named Hoco, as the one who made THEM uncomfortable, despite Mod being the adult in the relationship who accepted/continued/sometimes even initiated the advances. Mod ultimately held more power in their dynamic, they could have cut the relationship at any moment before it got sexual. https://x.com/splitsterart/status/1749929155251102148?t=UVpJv9IJPTNiEwVoH-Gv3w

At the same time, Kallulily put out a statement defending her friend. This statement once again blamed the victim, insinuating the victim only came forward with the grooming allegations as an act of revenge (yes, the victim who had been groomed by her friend). Taking it as far as stating that the victim was a greater threat to minors than the groomer ever was.

Kallulily would later delete this statement. These screenshots were saved by another user, and are taken from here: https://x.com/Kaizilero/status/1750261445080883671

Along with this, Kallulily & Mod claimed Hoco knew and enabled a minor to distribute NSFW commissions. This has been cleared up by both the minor and Hoco. It’s important to mention how much making a claim like this can hurt someone’s reputation. https://x.com/RustyDoodleBot/status/1749962678406177246

In no situation is it ever ok to blame or portray a grooming victim as evil for coming out about their abuse. Despite Kallulily claiming she holds her friend accountable, she still brings the victim's reputation down to elevate her friend’s actions. Note that Mod was inappropriate to multiple minors, at least 3, meaning Kallulily and Mod’s argument of this happening because of Hoco’s behavior is null. As Mod has been inactive on all of their accounts since their callout, they are not the focal point of this post. However, other affected minors were recently contacted and new screenshots with both confirmation via memory and hard proof with screenshots of past NSFW conversations and art were given, with permission to share. DM this account for those screenshots if the extra confirmation is necessary.

Kallulily claims her friend has changed, but change isn’t trying to shift the blame onto a minor for starting NSFW conversation. Change isn’t trying to bring down a victim to make yourself and your friends look less bad. The overreaching defenses only come across as a defense of grooming itself.

Regardless of if Hoco did something bad too, it doesn’t take away from Mod’s abuse of them. Both Kallulily and Mod never apologized for claiming Hoco was at fault for being groomed in some way, which is the reason why this post is being made for awareness.

Please do not harass Kallulily, Mod, the Kirby Gijinka Rainbow Zine, or anyone else involved. This post is only to spread awareness.

as a directioner since 2015 and a human being, i cannot BELIEVE that a company will go as far as abusing and even denying medical help to the children it is supposed to be supporting. how bad can you be to treat bright-eyed teenagers so badly that they lose their identities in the pursuit of what they once loved?

the industry is barbaric, and every person involved in these acts (perpetrators, not victims) should be punished in the worst ways possible.

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Reblogged this cause more people should see what's happening

Dream Drama

Hello Tumblr and Dsmp people!!! I'm hoping you guys are well even during this suddenly startling discourse, I've spent a while doing as much research on this as I can and I've decided to do a bit of an info booth on the topic. If you have any questions after reading all of this go ahead and ask!!!(this is not ment to hurt ANYONE'S feelings I'm simply trying to piece together this puzzle for other people, I do not support ANY of dreams actions going forward and to people who support him that's your opinion)

Okay to start let's go with the main started of this whole 3 hour long stream drama. A little while ago on dreams Twitter he posted a meme, this meme was in no way funny and was extremely rude and insensitive.

(the meme)>>>>

This meme was pointed as you can tell directly at tommy fans, he got angry at peoples rights to an opinion an post this cruel meme, he also tweeted this>>>>

Which makes no sense with his tweet being still up and seeming to have 'no other options' dream started his stream. The stream was long and hard to actually digest so ill break down some main points,

Dream began to speak about his falling out with tommy and how he felt so betrayed because he had basically 'made the kid popular', he proceeded to take credit for all of Tommy's fame, and while he had helped bring Tommy's channel up in the world it's totally unfair to claim it was all his work, he even pulled up old videos of tommy praising him which was weird on its own. He talk for a long while about how all tommy did was lie and how he 'hoped' they could rekindle they're friendship after tommy had said many times that he was interested and didn't really want to keep in contact with him, he also brought up the video tommy had made recently about how YouTube had really been declining his mental health and he's trying to balance his life and his online appearances, dream claimed it was all for attention. At this point dream had rambled for a while about random not okay and genuinely really not an apology for what he had done when he began to talk about Tommy, Tubbo, and Aimsey. He spoke about how tubbo was basically Tommy's slave and how he did whatever tommy wanted without the blink of an eye saying that tubbo is still his friend and he doesn't blame him saying it's Tommy's fault, which tubbo had come out and spoke of a few incidence that made him disconnect his friendship with dream that I'll talk about later. He suddenly dragged aimsey into this saying THEY where the mastermind and also always lies just because THEY are a bad person, dream so happened to misgender aimsey every single time as he spoke of them. This is where I'm gonna kind break off from what dream has said and move in to people reactions and things that have been brought to the light,

Tubbo reacted to dream stream and brought up a lot of topics such as for one he doesn't want to only be referred to as Tommy's best friend as dream did almost constantly saying he's more than just that he's a person who's fully involved in this scenario. He also brought to light one reason (which he had mentioned before this) he stopped being dreams friend, during his and Tommy's time on the dream smp they where both in a discord server with dream and a few of his friends, in this server they happened to be send inappropriate messages to each other, that weren't suitable or allowed by the minors requests, dream did nothing to stop the large amount of p0rn being sent in the group discord even while it had been requested of him multiple times from both tommy an tubbo however dream claimed that tubbo had asked him to treat him equally and like an adult which tubbo later denyed and even if he had, he was a minor who could not make that choice for himself and dream shouldnt have done it anyway, this situation also relates to the George and Caiti drama(I don't know to much about this but I've done some research) so basically George had gropped Caiti and dream quickly helped both cover it up and chase Caiti off the internet, tommy had been helpful in this situation trying to figure out what had gone on and had been supportive to Caiti. Again I don't know to much about thag one bit enough to involve it. Anyway the other streamer dream had gone after was quackity for one over the large amount of backlash dream had gotten from the dream smp idea being seen as stolen by quackities qsmp, this isn't quite the most sure subjects because dream claims he was making the idea before the qsmp had even been announced, who knows for that one. But he also threw a ton of shade towards quackity and tommy for simply supporting they're own merchandise, in response quackity started a stream not long after, opened it said hi and announced his game show before he left it at that(go king). Another thing tommy talked on his own video(that only needed to be 8 minutes mind you) that dream had been talking to his mom through her dms telling her tommy was a terrible person and basically just trying to make a wdge between them. Dream also rambled on for a while about how he was infact a trumpee, which is fully his opinion, however it wasn't apart of the streams point soooo... He spent a total of almost three hours rambling excuses after excuses for any of his actions blaming many people in the end a lot of his friends who had seen the video have rather joined Tommy and tubbo by simply hoping to cut contact or claming they don't support anything dream was doing.(if you guys want more info message me, and again I have the right to my opinion you have the right to your's this is just what I've found and wanted to make sure to share)

Sorry it was kinda rambled, hope you got atleast some info out of it. Goodluck dsmp people!!

update specifically from dream, also confirming the allegations

So I’m not at all qualified to make any sweeping claims about DID or any disorders since I’m not professionally trained nor do I know the full intricacies of what causes dissociative disorders but like

Disclaimer aside, it’s the weirdest fucking feeling to find out that someone who had an inappropriate relationship with you and who hurt you in very personal ways is now claiming to have DID.

like I knew you for four years and now that you’re away from me you’re setting up a persona online of this cool edgy emo man with DID? I saw you in your darkest moments and it was still YOU. What the hell

does anyone have any tips to help cope or understand why people do this?

how i felt when the man who fucking groomed me tried to contact me again:

Warning post for Kallulily

This is a warning post for @/kallulily regarding an incident she was in that happened in January of this year. This is being brought up right now because Kallulily is modding for the Kirby Gijinka Rainbow Zine (as Mod Paintra), a large event in the Kirby community. As this incident happened on Twitter/X it’s not well known here and many continue to support Kallulily without knowing her morals or actions.

Trigger warnings for grooming, abuse, and mentions of NSFW, rape, feral, and incest content in certain links

The incident concerns Kallulily’s friend @/splitser on tumblr and @/splitsterart on twitter (known as “Mod”) being called out for grooming someone starting when the victim was 15 and they were 19-20. A callout was made for this. There were two docs made, both shown in the X link below, with one being explicit, and one being a censored version. Warning for mentions or explicit screenshots of NSFW, rape, feral, incest content being exposed to minors, depending on the document https://x.com/RustyDoodleBot/status/1749553958920577093

Mod would later put out a response to this callout. Despite claiming they don’t condone their own behavior, they gave the excuse of the minor “insisted on seeing [Mod’s] NSFW material”, dismissing their own blame from their inappropriate actions towards minors. 

In the document they portrayed the victim, named Hoco, as the one who made THEM uncomfortable, despite Mod being the adult in the relationship who accepted/continued/sometimes even initiated the advances. Mod ultimately held more power in their dynamic, they could have cut the relationship at any moment before it got sexual. https://x.com/splitsterart/status/1749929155251102148?t=UVpJv9IJPTNiEwVoH-Gv3w

At the same time, Kallulily put out a statement defending her friend. This statement once again blamed the victim, insinuating the victim only came forward with the grooming allegations as an act of revenge (yes, the victim who had been groomed by her friend). Taking it as far as stating that the victim was a greater threat to minors than the groomer ever was.

Kallulily would later delete this statement. These screenshots were saved by another user, and are taken from here: https://x.com/Kaizilero/status/1750261445080883671

Along with this, Kallulily & Mod claimed Hoco knew and enabled a minor to distribute NSFW commissions. This has been cleared up by both the minor and Hoco. It’s important to mention how much making a claim like this can hurt someone’s reputation. https://x.com/RustyDoodleBot/status/1749962678406177246

In no situation is it ever ok to blame or portray a grooming victim as evil for coming out about their abuse. Despite Kallulily claiming she holds her friend accountable, she still brings the victim's reputation down to elevate her friend’s actions. Note that Mod was inappropriate to multiple minors, at least 3, meaning Kallulily and Mod’s argument of this happening because of Hoco’s behavior is null. As Mod has been inactive on all of their accounts since their callout, they are not the focal point of this post. However, other affected minors were recently contacted and new screenshots with both confirmation via memory and hard proof with screenshots of past NSFW conversations and art were given, with permission to share. DM this account for those screenshots if the extra confirmation is necessary.

Kallulily claims her friend has changed, but change isn’t trying to shift the blame onto a minor for starting NSFW conversation. Change isn’t trying to bring down a victim to make yourself and your friends look less bad. The overreaching defenses only come across as a defense of grooming itself.

Regardless of if Hoco did something bad too, it doesn’t take away from Mod’s abuse of them. Both Kallulily and Mod never apologized for claiming Hoco was at fault for being groomed in some way, which is the reason why this post is being made for awareness.

Please do not harass Kallulily, Mod, the Kirby Gijinka Rainbow Zine, or anyone else involved. This post is only to spread awareness.

Hey, I highly recommend checking out my YouTube channel, I have a video coming out tomorrow that is super important that I need people to watch. I won't go into too much detail here because I promised myself I was done posting about it, but long story short, I recently realized that I was being groomed, SAed, and manipulated by someone who I thought was a friend for 2 years.

The video coming out tomorrow goes into way more detail about it, but I seriously do not recommend checking it out with grooming, SA, guilt-tripping, pedophilia, and all that jazz isn't something you're fond of. This video is barely edited minus captions, the trigger warnings at the beginning, and a small message at the end, but it's something that I want to talk about and be able to move on from after the video is uploaded.

Thank you for supporting me and please, PLEASE stay safe online and irl, especially with everything going on with the US government. I love you all (/p) and I hope you have a great day. Lots of love from your local enby dragon.

~ 💜🖤

(P.S. YouTube channel is in my linktree which at the bottom of the pinned post!)

LGBT people, I need you to know that any “pedophile execution bill” passed in the US is meant to put you, personally, to death. When the right says “groomer,” they’re talking about you. When they say “predator,” they’re talking about you. When they say “pedophile,” they’re talking about you. Any actual child sex abusers who are convicted and executed would be, to them, a happy accident, a cherry on top of a law that’s meant to exterminate anyone who deviates from the cisgender, heterosexual norm.