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kinktober — day 3 | orgasm denial/crying

into it • [park jongseong]

she don’t really like it but she needs me

pairing: park jongseong x fem!reader genre: smut, established relationship, hard dom!idol, sub!reader synopsis: in which you‘re supposed to learn your lesson after acting up (let’s be real, you don‘t) word count: 597 warnings: unprotected sex (wrap it, before u tap it, kiddos), crying, orgasm dental

this feels so weird idk, it’s kinda rushed and bad, i sincerely apologize, jay anon :(

Draping your leg over his shoulder, Jay harshly snapped his hips against yours as his dick caressed your sweet spot.

»How many fucking times do I have to tell you not to act up like that in front of the others?«, he hissed, rough thrust accompanying his words to fuck the attitude out of you. »Yet you either don’t listen or don’t fucking care.«

Tears pooled in your eyes at his words, you knew he didn’t meant it as rude as it sounded and you’d be lying if you said it didn’t turn you on but the friction on your pussy started to get unbearable and you were well aware you weren’t allowed to cum until you learned your lesson.

»But let me tell you, baby girl, that whatever the fuck it is that makes you not listen to me«, he halted for a moment, dark eyes fixing yours before he roughly picked up his pace again, »I don’t mind fucking that attitude out of you over and over again, you got me?«

You nodded, too breathless to reply and even if you tried it wouldn’t be more than a whisper.

»Use your words to reply to me, got it?«

»I’m . . . I’m sorry.«

»Oh, are you?«

A small tear drop rolled down your check because of his rough pace and movements and you tried pressing your legs together to make him stop but his muscular arms held them in place, his cold stare piercing your eyes as he clenched his jaw.

»Jay, please slow down«, you whined. More tears ran over your face while he continued to pound into you with the same pace as before. »I‘m getting sensitive . . . «

He chuckled, breathless but still going, and leaned forward to gently kiss your lips, his hair sticking to his forehead and pearls of sweat coating his neck

»Is someone close?«

His whisper tickled your senses and you clenched around him, too scared to cum but barely able to suppress it much longer. You nodded, a high moan escaping your lips as you turned your head sideways to escape his gaze.

»Eyes on me, baby girl«, he scolded, turning your head to meet your eyes with his again. »Do you want to cum?«

You were unable to reply, sniffles taking over as you started crying in pleasure, your pussy hurting too good for you to concentrate and a hushed whimper accompanied your nod when you dug your nails into the bedsheets.

»Then beg for it.«

You sobbed at his command, tears flowing like there was no tomorrow, and your legs began to tremble while he kept his animalistic pace with his thrusts.

You screamed his name in a moan, the knot in your stomach tightening as you pleaded for him to let you finish.

He chuckled at your pathetic whimpers, mocking the way your voice trembled with every word you spoke as he stroked your hair out of your face.

»Jay, please let me finish«, you snuffled and bit your lip to suppress another sob, your back arching off the bed and your silent crying filling the room. »I promise I will be good.«

Jay scoffed, pulling out of you and clicked his tongue before kissing your lips and wiping away your tears.

»Let this be a lesson, clean yourself up and meet me in the living room«, he whispered and got up from the bed, collecting his clothes on the way to the bathroom. »We still have a lot to talk about.«

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after re-reading it, i honestly don’t hate it as much as before, so i hope you like it jay anon :3

taglist:

@faeriecobie, @ahgasearmyfan

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kinktober setlist

Yes... nn...nnn...🥵... NN NNN NNNN 😬🙏 can I watch? I won't bother you.. I'll stand in the corner, and if you want I'll even leave you alone when I've finished masturbatinnnnNN♠️🍆🥵😵‍💫NGH💧🤏

Which will be before you even reach the bed..😮‍💨😞

Before even getting upstairs probably..

Won't even bother getting out of MY BED to meet you... The thought's enough for me whennnNNN..

...💭♠️🍆NNNNNNGHH 🤤

Reblog and show some love if you think my friend should get blacked

hookup culture has men enjoying 100% orgasms while women only manage to orgasm 7% of the time

Relevant quotes from the full study:

"Research suggests that women may set the bar for satisfactory sex quite low - specifically, the absence of pain and degradation rather than the presence of pleasure and orgasm."

[Regarding men being more likely to engage in manual clitoral stimulation and oral sex when in a relationship, while fellatio was prevalent among hook-ups and relationships] "According to the authors, these findings suggest the orgasm gap is larger in casual sex because women are less likely to feel entitled to seek their own sexual pleasure and men are less motivated to provide their partners with pleasure..."

so what do women gain from sexual liberation and hookup culture? they get no orgasms, no emotional support and still get judged and slutshamed by society.

it seems to me that sexual liberation is a misnomer and hookup culture which is marketed to women as a way of expressing their sexual freedom and overcoming the unfair patriarchal standards women were supposed to live up to is actually a way to get women to accept less commitment and emotional investment.

(X) (X)

A frisky game of red light, green light :)   by Yourgoodgirl

Master and I bought a vibe that goes in my panties and pushes against my clit. And it has a remote for him to use while it's on me. Things are about to get kinky again.

I'm stroking all day hard but I had no orgasm yet this month. My balls are so full and start aching.

Her Master's orgasm is the only one who matters.

I’d rather have His orgasm, than my orgasm.

Just a little guy

One week for each reblog, she's crazy 🤤😍

Please keep me denied 😊

Since I barely have any followers,

1 reblog= 1 week of denial

1 like= 1 edge before I can cum

Please reblog 🥰

You know what sounds nice? Keeping a girl on the edge of orgasm for an hour or two. Make her forget everything except my name

Fuck, I knew NOvember was coming but I've never heard of denial december. I hope the girl owning my keys neither. Maybe I should tell her.

Follow: Hotel Femdom - make the world a better place.

Be a good boy and apply. The girl owning me will lead me through this challenge. I can't wait to see her again the end of this month for a lock up day.

No orgasms without her permission first.

Only censored porn pictures, no videos.

Stroke everyday and submit to all women.

Task III – Spinning the wheel of denial for her amusement. This feels like a confirmation to me.

Her smile was her superpower… and I was defenseless…

Wait for lOcktober, my little stroking boy. Enjoy it.

Yes, Mistress, make me obey you better. 💖

Being caged is becoming the new normal...

Small chastity update 4/14/2019

3/23/2019 allowed full orgasm

3/24/2019 allowed full orgasm

3/28/2019 full orgasm, unauthorized

As you can see, I was recently allowed several full orgasms, as well as allowed out of chastity for several days last month, which led to me masturbating and cumming while I was at school. We had decided to take a small break from D/s but I knew Ma'am probably wouldn’t want me cumming by myself anyway. I hadn’t asked Ma'am’s permission, and She never EXPLICITLY said I wasn’t allowed to touch or cum, so…

But I knew She would rather me have some self control. I acted out a little bit as I don’t think I was fully ready to have a break from D/s. I’m ashamed to say that probably a large portion of me having an unauthorized orgasm was to say “look what happens when You’re not controlling me”, which is the wrong way to go about getting dominated.

After I told Her what I did, She did put me back in chastity, where I remained for the next two weeks without it removed.

4/10/2019 She allowed me to lick Her to an orgasm while locked.

Yesterday (4/13/2019 she removed it so I could clean and shave, “cleaned” Her cock in the shower with a little soapy stroking then teased me with Her pussy once we got out, slowly grinding Herself on it and making me whimper.

I was close to cumming almost immediately after She slid me inside Her. When I told Her I was close She laughed and firmly said “Well then, toy, you’ll have to use your mouth and fingers on Me instead.”

I groaned with need, (and also at Her Domme Voice!) but happily kissed my way down Her body until I could pay attention to Her wet pussy.

We were planning on going to a friend’s house later that day and of course in the middle of this he called to finalize our plans, which Ma'am made me stop and answer. It’s hard to concentrate on a conversation when Ma'am is lying there, naked, Her wet pussy taunting me with its glistening folds.

Finally I was able to stumble through the conversation to a reasonable stopping point and resume my task quickly! After giving Her a long, strong orgasm, we had to get dressed and run errands. I was still unlocked but I was in a horny fog and kept missing the correct exits and streets to the point where Ma'am asked me if I wanted Her to drive, lol.

When we got back home, we relaxed for a few hours until it was time to go to our friend’s house for cocktails. Ma'am surprised me by saying “I want you locked before we leave.”

So after a few brief hours of freedom, (which honestly feels kinda odd, like I’ve constantly forgotten to do something) Her cock has been locked away again.

I’m starting to literally dream of chastity. At least half the time I dream, I am locked up in my dream. It is starting to become my “new normal”, and I love it.

Thank You, Ma'am!

I just love her mean side! It is such a turn on to know that even such a submissive girl who loves to give head wouldn't want your dicklet.

A Teensy Tiny Sadistic Streak

So I might be a little bit mean after all. And I know this isn’t really the main topic of this blog but I enjoyed myself with this one and wanted to share, hehe. 

Yesterday I got my locked up little dick boy all worked up and desperate, teased him about how badly he wanted to cum and then when he was squirmingly, beggingly desperate I gave him a code for his lock box. 

So off he runs to excitedly get out his keys so he can unlock and stroke his little dick to a disappointing spurt but it doesn’t work… 

I left him hanging for a moment, panicking, wondering if maybe I didn’t even have the right combination and he was trapped forever before I confessed that I totally lied to him just to get his hopes up and crush them.

He tells me I almost broke him that day.

Well… plenty of time to finish the job, hehe. 

^_^

My befriended Domme allowed me to stroke myself until I cum but only using one finger.

Edged for over 15 hours in the past 3 days..havent released in about a month..fist is bouncing off of full balls crippling my mind

So am I keeping myself horny all week, stroking every night instead of sleeping but never ever going to cum. Even if I will meet a willing girl who offers me her body, I can't last a minute inside her. She will soon need a real man with at least a regular size and a little more stamina to fuck her good.

Fuck nudes, show me that cute smile only. 💕

Living this Snowbunny life style is really expensive 😥 I gotta look amazing and perfect for my bull everyday to keep him happy ❤ So bois capable of spoilin me are welcomed to say Hi! ✌

And as I said here’s the new Friday pic I promised you all! 😘

Dont forget every Reblog puts a smile on my face so please do it! 😚 For me 😍

¿PORQUE ESTA TENIENDO TANTO EXITO EL MANTENERLO EN CASTIDAD? Porque los varones nos volvermos extremadamente vulnerables y susceptibles de ser entrenados (programados...), con ordenes de parte de la Dom para cumplir sus exigencias.

La idea es que, con el paso de los dias y a medida que crece en el, su libido, es lograr que el llegue a extremos de excitacion tan altos... que estos estados de excitacion lo volvera cada vez mas vulnerable a la programacion que ella le vaya imprimiendo en su psiquis.

Se que esto puede parecer meras tonterias, pero es la pura verdad! Cantidad de parejas vienen posteando en diversos blogs y en foros sus experiencias.

Si entran, por ejemplo, en el Portal de Bdsm titulado: Fetlife.com alli pueden suscribirse en cantidad de grupos donde se publican todo el tiempo las experiencias de las parejas, matrimonios, etc y la verdad es que publican info muy valiosa que esta bueno tomar nota.

Y todos coinciden en una cosa, que el uso de un artilugio para limitar los orgasmos en el varon (el Chastity belt), no sirve de gran cosa, sin el adiestramiento de parte de la Dom mediante simples tecnicas de tenerlo excitado pero a la vez, impedirle que llegue al orgasmo (estas tecnicas, se conocen en ingles con el nombre de "Tease and Denial").

MUCHAS MUJERES QUE ESTAN EN LA ONDA FLR CONOCEN ESTE "DETALLE" A LA PERFECCION!

Saben muy bien, que las primeras semanas (o en algunos casos, los primeros meses...), ellas tendran que mantenerse bien firmes con su sub, no pueden darse el lujo de dejarse embaucar por ellos!

Porque la naturaleza de los varones es, como bien han dicho reiteradas veces muchas mujeres, es pensar desde su pene!

Y por mas que el diga, que si ella le retira el dispositivo de castidad para hacer una limpieza de la zona, el se va a portar bien y no se va a resistir, cuando ella haya terminado y se lo este por colocar de nuevo, lo cierto es que en la practica, muchos varones no pueden con su ego de machos y buscaran, como sea, impedir que ella vuelva a colocarselo!

Ademas esta el riesgo de la diferencia de tamaño y fuerza entre un hombre y su mujer! Y muchos varones, conociendo esto, buscaran aprovecharse, de ahi que es mejor no concederles ninguna ventaja!

La idea es perseverar a pesar de todo, ya que teniendo, la mayoria de las mujeres, una gran diferencia fisica que no juega precisamente a favor de ellas, ellas deben aprender a sacar ventaja de otros tipos de recursos, que les permita de alguna manera, "equilibrar" la balanza e incluso, volverla a inclinar hacia el lado de ellas!

Los hombres tenemos la ventaja de nuestro tamaño, de poseer mas fuerza, pero no solemos ser tan persistentes, metodicos y disciplinados como son las mujeres y en esto, muchas veces nos terminan ganando*!

Ademas, esta probado que a nivel psicologico, que ella lo espose a la cama o lo ate a los trabesaños de la cama, para tenerlo inmovilizado con el fin de hacer los ajustes pertinentes, eso va incidiendo cada vez mas, a nivel psicologico, voviendo al varon cada vez mas sumiso, porque se va dando cuenta que no puede resistirse a ella, que ella es la que, en definitiva, tiene la ultima palabra!

(*): es como la famosa parabola oriental que dice que el agua que gotea sobre una roca, si lo hace con perseverancia y durante el tiempo suficiente..., terminara dejando un hueco en la misma. La roca podra ser mucho mas dura que el agua que va cayendo sobre ella, pero terminara moldeandola a su antojo!

Only cleaning. I just have to obey.

Iam pussyfree loser! I dont deserve to cum!!!

Yes, thats true!

Still have 0 ejaculations in 2023.

Im so proud of myself to being pussyfree!

My goals for 2025: 

Stay pussyfree whole year 

Watch more, MORE porn

Only 6 orgasms(or less)

Only ruined orgasms

Ejaculation only after women permission

Punishment after every ejaculation

Respect locktober and no nut november

Thats the best!