Mspec Gay - Blog Posts

Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!

@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!

people need to realize that dissolving the lines between gender also means dissolving the lines between sexuality. you cannot say gender is fake and then say sexuality is strict and rigid.

there are multigender/genderfluid people who are lesbians and gay men at the same time. there are mspec lesbians/gays/straights who have a complex relationship with gender and their sexuality. there are gay men who are women and lesbians who are men because male isn't the opposite of female.

"conflicting" labels are a part of many people's queer experience, because the human experience isnt simple enough to be put into neat perfect categories. if you truly support trans/genderqueer people, you need to accept the fact that gender and sexuality is complex and there will be people whose identities you don't understand

Multi-oriented: Someone who has multiple orientations, such as mspec lesbians, mspec gays, and mspec straights, or people who are a combination of mspec orientations such as bi/pan bi/omni omni/pan etc. or anyone who just feels they have multiple orientations.

The flag represents the wide range of orientations one can be, with the gray and white stripes in the middle representing us all living together in peace and mutual respect.

About me

I realised I've never done a proper introduction so here it comes

No DNI but if you behave like you want to be blocked you will be.

I am Jamie, 20 yo and the host of a traumagenic OSDD system.

We don't care about other systems origins and think that it is problematic to invalidate anyones plurality since that just seems like fakeclaming tbh and fakeclaming is always shit.

We believe in the validity of informed self-diagnosis.

We are diagnosed autistic and have ADHD, BPD, PTSD, anxiety and depression, all of them were self-diagnosed before we got the offical diagnosis. Currently we are slef-diagnosed with OSDD but working on the official diagnosis.

We live in a country with mostly free healthcare so getting official diagnoses is easier fo us than many others. We know that many people don't have this privilage, that's why self-diagnoses are so important for many.

I am celestial shapeshifterkinfluid with some other changing kintypes like catkin, foxkin and more.

I experience varying degrees of species dysphoria and phantom limbs. Dysphoria mostly about not being able to shapeshift, not having a tail and legs, phantom limbs mainly tail.

I am a genderqueer, xenogender, genderhoarder neoboy, my pronouns he/xe.

I am AroAceFlux mspec gay and live with my wonderful partner.

Here[link] is my hoard to see many of my flags. The hoard is work in progress and isn't nearly compleated yet.

I will edit this post if things change or if there are things I want to add