He/him Lesbian - Blog Posts

i haven't seen my butch in a while.

every time i sleep i dream his arms are wrapped around me, his kisses are so tender on my aching temple, i melt into his embrace. all my dark clouds dissipate into nothingness when he creeps up behind me, plants a bird-kiss on my shoulder. he's so gentle with me; he protects me in my dreams.

oh, my darling butch! how i miss you so!

yes i will be headcannoning that straight man as a autistic he/him lesbian

love transmasc/trans man lesbians so much and I’m so glad I’m part of a community that is full of them and super accepting but I’m afraid sometimes it’s so widespread in my friend groups and related circles that people start calling me butch and like, I’m not. just like before, it’s still the case that not every transmasc, even if they IDed we one before, feels comfortable with the lesbian label or identity. but it’s been multiple times now where people have referred to me as “butch” to my face. and I’m simply not one. never was. i’m so fag. hell you can call me a twink. but butch is not my gender, it’s not my way of expressing womanhood (bc im not one), and it’s not my way of expressing my masculinity either. being inclusive is so so awesome but can we CONTINUE TO TRY TO REFRAIN from referring to people as SPECIFIC IDENTITIES without ASKING THEM?

and transmasc lesbian ≠ butch

I love butches!!!! but I keep seeing Men DNI under butch appreciation posts like.....that's defeating the whole purpose, no? What about transmasc or nonbinary or gender queer or genderfluid butches?? What about he/him or he/they or he/she butches? What about butches that prefer to be boyfriends or boytoys or husbands? What about butches on T? Butches with dicks? With bottom or top surgery?

But it's also excluding the men who are attracted to butches. What about lesboys? And gaybians? And sapphilleans? And the minsexuals?

Roleswap AU

If only you could know how much joy it brings to me to create an AUs that no one asked for.

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Ah, hello there! Well, first of all, I'm not exactly a good storyteller or writer, plus English is not my first language and I'm dyslexic, which makes me tired of writing easily, so don't expect big and complex text here. In fact, it’s not just a normal text, but a bunch of facts, headcanons and my comments. Part of this’ll be even a little bit personal. You’ve been warned, fellas. For those who still reading it - thank you. In this AU Zim is truly the most succesful invader in the Irken Empire. He’s aware of this and therefore his ego is immense. His desire to serve the Tallest quickly passed when his efforts’ve been neglected. Zim makes no secret of his disgust for the Almighty Tallest and so do they by sending him on deadly missions in hope that he won’t return. But he always survives. That's why they send Zim to deal with Tak, who also was a pain in the ass for all this years. However, Zim decided to postrone her elimination so he could stay on Earth for a while.

Tak is just extremely unlucky. She disgraced herself in front of the whole Armada on the day of her final examination and then she was assigned to the planet Dirt as a punishment.

And here where the personal stuff starts. Now let's talk about Gaz... Specifically about he/him lesbian headcanon. I haven't seen even a single character in media that represents that category of people, and furthermore not a single person who would have such headcanon, so I felt like I should create my own.   It was stated that Gaz has a girly side to her but doesn't want anyone (except her family) to know and it's actually resonates with me on so many levels. Since we have this weird connection, I decided to make her more representative for me. And that's how this headcanon was born. Some people think that he/him lesbians can't exist because using these pronouns automaticly makes you a trans person or somehow a man??? It's very painful to hear, especially from those who are supposed to be in the same boat with you. He/him lesbians are not men, they are still women - they simply are more comfortable with he/him pronouns. Pronouns are a personal preference to what someone wants to be called and it is not a mandatory for their gender and pronouns to match. Please take care of yourself and respect others. Love y’all, have a nice day!

living in pennsyltucky as a black queer where there is absolutely no queer community (and the ones in my area tend to be racist bc, of course they are) is so irritating. there’s no one here. i don’t live near pittsburgh or philadelphia. *dramatically drags hand down window as rain pelts down from outside* i’m all alone. obi wan-community, you’re my only hope

anyone else not planning on coming out in depth to family? bc, they know i’m a lesbian, but they would never understand that i want to take t and get top surgery and be the boyfriend/husband in the relationship. the first time i tried to tell a family members that i would like to look more masculine, the only thing she said to me was that my face was so pretty, i don’t need to change it. i told my siblings they could use any pronouns for me and call me myles. never hear anything but she/her and my other (not deadname) name. yeah. we love tolerant, but not supportive families.

why do i keep finding so many radfem/terf/etc takes in the he/him lesbian and lesboy tags? if you hate us so much, pls ignore us. your weird ass take about why i can’t be a he/him butch bc it’s actually just ‘internalized misogyny’ is not gonna rewire my brain to make me agree with you. we aren’t the ones chronically online. the butchs and he/she’s and boydykes of lesbian history can tell you that. we’ve always been here. and no, i won’t elaborate, bc you used your own brain to read this. use your brain to research.