Follow Your Passion: A Seamless Tumblr Journey
1 - I am free to personally like and dislike whoever it is that I choose, regardless of what other people think.
2 - I do not have to tolerate or accept repeated abusive behaviour in my life based on the abusers state of mind or personal well being.
3 - There are no rules when it comes to who I must, and who I must not allow in my personal space, except for my own.
4 - As an independent adult or young adult, I understand that what I do in my personal life, does not have to be based on what another person insists that I do, or else there will be consequences.
5 - I am allowed to say no.
6 - I am free to choose which invites to attend or not attend.
7 - I might have accepted a gift, but this does not bind me to the givers will.
8 - I can choose to have different beliefs and values than others, and still get along in the world.
9 - I am beautiful, no matter what they say (thank you xtina :))
10 - I am free to have whatever feelings that I have in any given moment, and pledge to manage these feelings in the safest, best possible way that supports the ultimate value of my existence.
Stay excellent :)
Shitheads exist.
I can thank them, since I get to be a major brain engager after having to repeatedly navigate their torrid little worlds, and get out the other side in one piece. In hilarious paradox, it is usually shitheads that are not in one piece, they are often split personalities, Jekyll and Hyde types who are in one moment giving hugs and happiness, and in the next punching you in the face because “your face makes me want to”.
Resting means re-finding and remaining in what never changes, which is essentially who you are inside, despite any hurt, pain, and suffering. Despite any of the low self esteem brought on by being in shitty company with deeply imbalanced, disrespectful interactions. Despite being told that you are anything else but who you are, who you are never changes and in resting there is always a safe, welcoming home.
Shitheads do not have such a home. They see other peoples homes, envy them, and seek to either occupy them fully, or destroy them completely - one of those is impossible, and the other only temporary, like a bad tenant, the type that leaves their trash behind and does not take care of what helps shelter it from the worlds trials and tribulations.
By resting, left behind trash can be cleared through and recognised as something that never belonged to us to begin with. There is zero responsibility, nor obligation to keep that trash in safe storage, so in whatever way that trash is turfed out of your beautiful home matters not, but you can bet it will matter 100% to the owner and they will not enjoy it’s appearance back into their lives.
Put the shit back where it belongs, with it’s shithead owner.
Sending love :) <3