I Cannot Stress The Importance Of Including As Many People In The Fight Against Trump And His Nazi Friends

I put on Twitter that a cute date idea for me (a cis woman with reproductive issues) and my boyfriend (a trans man) would be for us to get a hysterectomy together and someone replied:

I SAID THAT THEY WERE GOING TO GO AFTER AO3 TOO, AND SOME OF Y'ALL FUCKERS OVER ON REDDIT SAID I WAS OVERREACTING AND FEAR-MONGERING. FUCK YOU, I WAS RIGHT. AND FUCK YOU DUMBASS WHITE WOMEN THAT VOTED TRUMP AND SAID "Well I thought we liked morally ambiguous men so..." GO FUCK YOURSELVES.

And I KNOW that seems childish to be focusing on this but I feel SO FUCKING VINDICATED because I was talking about this months prior about how they WANT to ban sexually explicit material because they WANT TO SILENCE, CRIMINALIZE AND MAKE OUT MARGINALIZED GROUPS TO BE SEXUAL DEVIANTS. AND I WAS TOLD THAT I WAS FEAR-MONGERING.

I HATE, HATE HATE, how I was gaslit into believing that bullshit >:(

And guess what, you can't download your fav ao3 queer/smut fics bc these things either once they go through with this, because that's akin to possessing CSEM. Yes, you may or may not be legally required to delete that story (fanfic or not) you've invested sweat, tears and sleepless nights into.

Consuming, creating or owning sexually explicit, EDUCATIONAL OR NOT, COULD PUT YOU ON THE SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY.

I'M NOT AMERICAN, I'M JUST MAD AND TERRIFIED BECAUSE HISTORY IS CLEARLY REPEATING ITSELF.

yesterday, as i was going to my driving lesson, i realized that the random pair of sweats i picked up were the pair of that make my thighs very apparent (im curvy) and it almost made me break down crying 😭

like i love how curvy and fat my thighs are but hate anyone seeing them or any outfits that make it apparent because they cause me dysphoria/dysmorphia because people will see them and go “oh! woman.” since men typically dont got curves like this 😔

normalize big booty men 💔💔 normalize thick thighs men 💔💔💔

"Everyone, look! It's the transmasc/trans man who is whining and bitching about how his/their bodily autonomy rights are being taken away and how he/they is still a target for malpractice in the medical field and how he/they are still a target for misogyny and transphobia in the cis ran world! Everyone point and laugh!" 🤡

This is genuinely have some of you mfs sound. Stfu. Ignorance is not bliss, it actually harms people in the long run.

#You are perpetuating the same misogyny we've experienced the majority of our lives it's just in a different font now.

before i realized i was a trans man (genderfaun), i was genderfluid

my plans for my persona was whenever im masc for him to be a siren whilst my fem align would be a fairy

i might still do this but have the fem align be for my agender identity as i still want the fairy

dont wanna give too much away for what my plans are but its gonna be COOL!!!

In 2021, my country debated on a law to open medically assisted procreation to women couples and single mothers. When it was debated we asked for it to broaden the conditions to include trans men and transmascs since the only mention of women excluded whose who had changed their gender markers.

We were consistently told by cis and trans women alike to stop making reproductive rights about men, that it was their fight.

The law passed. And we celebrated, and they celebrated, and we held back tears, we'd never be fathers.

In 2024, my country debated on putting abortion in the constitution.

The minister of families received 2 renowned TERFs and tried to change the law go forbid professionnals to refuse an abortion to "women", so trans men whose gender markers were changed could be denied. And we fought, and we fought for the definition to be changed and we won, and we celebrated in

Deafening silence.

“If men could be pregnant it’d be in the constitution already !”

If only you knew.

After I got assaulted, I wanted to take a self defense lesson.

They were “cis and trans women only”, because a man like me shouldn't know how to hit. I went to the gym and I punched a dummy until my knuckles turned purple.

I got a sleep exam. Under anesthesia, the doctor asked me if he should say “sir or ma’am”. I’m tied up on the bed. I asked him to say “sir”. He tells me “I guessed so, you’re such a pretty boy” and he stroke my arm. I want to scream and cry. When I recall the scene to people I'm stealth with, they say I just dreamed, he wouldn't do that, I'm a man. I'm a hysterical woman with extra steps.

I catter to my wounds alone and I wonder

If I got to the point of being hatecrimed

If people would argue on my grave

For it to be called

A feminicide.

and you could even have BOTH a vagina and a penis!!!

its called being salmacian!!

its what i plan on doing!!!

I know that HRT gives you secondary sex characteristics in one direction or another, but we HAVE to stop telling nonbinary people that they “can’t pick and choose.” Of course, you can’t tell your testosterone that you’d rather not grow chest hair, but there are things you can do!

You could go on T so your voice drops and start shaving so you don’t grow a beard. You could start HRT and then stop once you get the permanent changes you like. You can pursue sterilization instead of bottom surgery. You can get top surgery without being on T. You can go on E and work out a bunch to bulk out your muscles. You can pursue laser hair removal or electrolysis to remove unwanted hair, with or without HRT. You could even just start hormones to see if you like it and then stop if it isn’t to your taste.

Obviously, you can’t order secondary sex characteristics a la carte, but we have to stop being so awful to nonbinary people. We should discuss the options we have, not shut down the conversation with “that’s what you get.”

AND we need to stop having radfem ideals as the main feminist movement. not only do they often believe this, they also PUSH it as what men will ALWAYS do

radfeminism is no longer about the patriarchy, its about hating men.

radfems often just became or already are sexist, transphobic, and homophobic.

ive seen radfems say that “all men” are the same which INCLUDE CHILDREN!! a CHILD showed signs of sexual abuse but they didnt care BECAUSE it was a male child who went to a female child and pulled her head to his crotch and said “suck”

NO TODDLER WILL DO THAT UNLESS THEY WERE TAUGHT TO AKA SEXUAL. ABUSE.

and radfems OFTEN do and say stuff that tell men that it is completely fine for them to do what they expect all men to do (the crimes that men are statistically more likely to do) which then tells women that they should expect it from them (which then can become victim blaming or even accepting abuse since its “expected”)

the “all men” ideology* is harmful and actively tells men and young boys that it is in their blood and biology to BE harmful people.

one thing people often say (that i agree with) is that we need to stop teaching women to accept abuse from men/defending them and to teach men to stop being abusive. the radfem ideology doesnt do that. it actively tells men that they WILL act that way since its what they always do. it actively HARMS that ideology

*this does not include the “all men” when it comes to randomly in the street, in public, etc. the ideology that you do not know that person therefore they may harm you IS valid. it ISNT valid to say that every man HAVE TO / WILL act a certain way as it tells young boys that they WILL act that way therefore telling them that it is completely fine to act that way. it is just a rebrand of “boys will be boys”

not only that, what about trans people?

do trans men count towards the “not all men” (according to them, it doesnt lmao)

then when you ask them why it often has to do with the fact that we are trans.

if you have to bring up someones PAST identity, the identity they NO LONGER IDENTIFY AS to defend WHY you dont include them in you ideology that has to do with the gender they currently are, then you dont see them as their current identity, only the previous one

as much as i would love to bring up issues that trans women deal with due to radfeminism, i have no clue how to bring it into the conversation as im not a trans women and, due to shitty memory, only remember my own experiences as a trans man when it comes to radfemisim. the og post i reblogged has a wonderful comment speaking on the fact that this also is trans misogyny as it claims that AMABs will always act a certain way, so does it apply to trans women?

again, radfeminism is just transphobia and sexism masked as feminism

it harms everyone. women especially. its essentially telling them that they should expect and accept abuse from men since “it’s what they do”

also, if any radfems see this, im blocking you lmao

this isnt a discussion, argument, etc. between us. i do not care what you have to say

only saying this because ive see a radfem before try to defend themselves in a post talking about the harm of the ideology as a trans man

people gotta stop acting like every single thing a man does is sexually motivated. it's not helping the men who do focus on making things sexually oriented that shouldn't be grow past the behavior. we gotta stop equating every single thing men do to somehow having to do with sex on some level. this is profiling whether or not we want to admit it, and it IS making the problem worse, because it REINFORCES this behavior in men who DO act like this. challenge the notion that all men care about is sex, not reinforce it. all you're doing is being absolutely fucking nasty, and you're especially walking all over sex repulsed men, asexual spectrum men, and men who have sexual trauma.

my issue with my anxiety is that the way i typically deal with it at home, i cannot do the same thing at work / in public.

its the reason why i want to start anxiety meds but my mom said that i should try looking at other coping mechanisms first before jumping into something that changes my brain chemistry (shes a nurse and shes for finding other ways to deal with issues before taking something that changes your brain chemistry. which i understand and agree with!!)

im just tired of the anxiety tbh i just wanna live a normal life without the constantly shaking, not being able to breathe properly, fear, etc.

chat this is my first day ever doing an am shift (7a-3a) and while running to my lyft bc i didnt want to be late, i fucking ate shit and FELL

thank god my house is on a hill and no one saw me 😭

good morning ig 💀