Please reblog so this can reach more people.
The term is organized as; Andro + queerphobia - to emphasize that this is a subset of queerphobia, not a subset of "misandry" which is a word that has been thoroughly poisoned by reactionary groups such as MRAs, incels, MGTOW, anti-SJWs, and others.
Definition: Bigotry against queer masculinity & queer manhood. Such as what is faced by butches, nonbinary people, transmasculine people & trans men, intersex men, and men/mascs who are gender nonconforming or otherwise genderqueer.
These are all forms of gender identity, expression, presentation & existence that are distinct from cisnormative patriarchal manhood, and posess proximity to femininity in some way, whether it be societally-imposed or from within. Because of this, queer masculinity & queer manhood is marginalized under patriarchy.
This term is meant to enmesh with similar terms used in queer discussion and is not meant to replace anything. It does not have an ideological backing aside from the belief that queer masculinity and manhood is gender-marginalized and those affected deserve a term to talk about that.
explanations left to right
- a big hoodie i got from target
- when i first came out, by my now ex friends and ex bf. when i came out for a 2nd time, my now ex bsf
- i was told by a transmed that me not experiencing dysmorphia/dysphoria wasnt me being trans and i thought i was going through a phase lmao
- i typically dont think when i shower i just scrub
- only my mom, dad, cousin, and brother know
- i want long/medium hair lol
- i dont pass irl so im scared to
- i wish it was more masc 😭 and im trying to prevent the tboy gay voice but voice training is HARDDD i wish there was just a step by step guide
- only a little not too much
- yeah LOL
- easier to be out online
- im 5’1 💀 i wish i was taller but it doesnt cause me dysphoria. not rn at least. ill be a short king 💔
- free space
- when i was a kid 😭
- nope i’ve always been into men
- i really want these breasts GONE 💔
- who doesnt? lmaoo
- i use binding tape + a strapless bra to flatten my chest
- when i came out to my mom, she asked a lot of questions 😭 was uncomfortable bc its my mom 😭 she’s supportive just wanted to make sure about everything
- already starting it
- i quite like my thing down there LMAO
- ive never used that bf mainly bc i 1) never thought to 2) barely have socks already 😭
- i know damn well i dont pass but whenever i try to i look in the mirror and go “do i?”
- he/him+they/them 😎
- i have an appointment to start soon!!!!
I also did a trans one!! (Also to my friends yes I do talk about not liking my height but not because of being trans, I just wanna be the tallest person ever)
Im not sure if i should transition or not. What helped you figure out what to do? Its honestly upsetting how back and forth my mind goes
I knew if I didn't at least try hrt, I would spend the rest of my life wondering and that's my biggest fear.
Also, people who don't need to transition don't usually spend so much time thinking about it. Just a thought.
Loved one got top surgery yesterday so I made this for him but I think y’all would appreciate it too
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This is open for public comment until the end of May 19th. Please comment and make your voice heard.
Wildlife need their habitat. If the ESA redefines harm so that habitat is no longer protected, the implications for wildlife would be catastrophic.
for whoever needs to hear this:
starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.
there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.
you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.
stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.
stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.
you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.
oops forgot to update
im blonde now yall!!
+face reveal
my room lighting makes it look golden i PROMISE ITS LIGHTER IT DOES NEED TO BE LIFTED AGAIN THO LOL
They are feeling more empowered so keep a watchful eye on who is around you.
this is actually the reason WHY i didnt come out for so long
i used to say shit like that before i realized i was a dude, my “friends” used to say shit like that, my mom used to say stuff like that
i was scared of realizing that i was a man due to the way everyone talked about them around me
i was nothing like the men they were saying men acted but was scared so badly of being seen that way that i boxed my thoughts of being trans up and sent them to the back of my mind
it was only until i finally felt comfortable (after i dropped all my those shitty people i called “friends”) that i finally let myself discover who i was
i genderfluided myself into a man and never changed back
this comment is also something i picked up on too
ive literally had a trans woman tell me (who used to act the way listed above) that she and many trans women who act like that are insecure about masculinity due to their transition so take it out on people who want to be masculine
im just tired of the queer community hating me for wanting to be a man
im so tired of radfeminism being the main feminist movement in social media
it isnt actual feminism its hatred in a trench coat wearing a mask with the words “feminism”
Yeah probably if you haven't lived the life of a trans man seeing people go "I don't like when people joke about hating men" or something along that line, it probably sounds mra ish.
But in my everyday life, people only address me as a man when they are using it to insult me. I forgot to do XYZ? That's me being a dumb man. I'm talking too long? I'm mansplaining. Etc etc. These are the only times in my real life that people will address me as a man. That's why we use the term 'malgendering', that's why many hate those "trans inclusive misandry" jokes. Because that's the only thing people are trans inclusive in.
trans folks with faded surgery scars. trans folks who’ve lost sensation or had botched surgeries. trans folk who stop and start or switch hrt. you’re not forgotten right now.
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