She/Her/Aroace/ADHD/Loves OC making, K-pop, Anime, BL, HP, SPN, MLP and more, love making friends!/ 16 / Love talking so please feel free to DM me!<3
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30 days of agere: day 21: favorite season
spring! 🌷🌷🌷
With summer fast approaching lots of fruits are in season and I would like to know which ones you absolutely love. 💕
i propose that instead of pride month, we have queer year (queer people are treated like actual people all year long)
edit: @ilackhumanqualities wins best addition to this post
some aces are virgins
some aces love sex
some aces have sexual trauma
some aces don't want sex
some aces masturbate
some aces are teenagers
some aces are in their seventies
some aces dress modestly
some aces wear skimpy clothes
some aces only date aces
some aces don't want romance
and we're all valid : )
EDIT: EVERYONE THAT'S HAVING DISCOURSE IN THE NOTES WILL BE BLOCKED IF YOU'RE BEING AN ASS
Edit edit: Anyone that's confused about how asexuals could love/enjoy/want sex can go read this
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Mediterranean apathy metaphors
this is Gwen's husband Arthur. and this is Arthur's husband Merlin.
Arthur, Gwen & Merlin | 5.05 "The Disir"
friends that take care of you when you're regressing <33
friends that hug you when youre crying <33
friends that remind you they're there an no one can hurt you <33
platonic kisses when you're regressing <33
"buddy" "pal" "little guy" "sweetheart" "puppy" <33
Fuck off🖕
Finding a colorblind friendly redesign of the rainbow flag has me happy to see a pride flag for once
"Aro/Ace person gets given a love potion" story but instead of them being immune or whatever, it DOES work, and they realize IMMEDIATELY that they've been fed a love potion because this feeling is so wrong and foreign but everyone keeps laughing off the idea of it being a love potion because "they were probably just a late bloomer" or "no, you just finally found the right person!" and it's just a horror story about how no one believes them even though they know, they KNOW this isn't right and they can't stand it.
Mermay 1-10 by Christophe Young
hehehe....
Arthur & Merlin | 3.05 "The Crystal Cave"
I will fancy it up later lmao. Name: Harmony! Age: 16-19 I have ADHD, Mild Autism? and am Aroace! I mostly repost stuff I like which includes: Pretty stuff, stim posts, moodboards, memes, ADHD/Autism/Mental Health stuff, Art, Anime, Merlin, Harry Potter, BL, Plushies, AgeRe and more! I love making friends! please feel free to message me! (I often open notifs and forget to reply though so I'm not ignoring you! just message again and I will reply!) Usually not-nsfw (unless its funny nonsense posts)
I have a side-blog for my OC's, not yet being used however: https://www.tumblr.com/arialux-astralites?source=share
my customizable Live2D model is out now btw!!
forgive me for posting about this again!! I wanted to share the final demo video + all my customized examples now that it's officially released!
if u want u can buy him here :3
I JUST GOT A NOTIFICATION ONE OF MY FAVORITE FANFIC WRITERS LIKED MY POST. ?;!:?!:!,!/!!//?! MALFUNCTIONING SHORTCIRCUITING GREAT MOTHER OF ALL THINGS HOLY IM JUMPING UP AND DOWN????
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I always message first, I always start conversations when they end, the conversations are always bland, I'm sick of that, I refuse to message first, if you wanted to spend time with me, you would have messaged me first anyway, also fuck every chat thats just 'hi, how are you' instead of 9 convos at once, sick of all the people I meet.
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I have never been this lucky before and I am kinda speechless…? within 160 pulls…? wat? now to get 1 more card and that black fit is MINE
Introduction
Age regression is when someone mentally shifts into a younger state of mind. This can be a voluntary or involuntary experience, and it's often used as a coping mechanism for things like stress, trauma, or mental health struggles. When someone regresses, they may act, think, or feel like a child, toddler, or baby.
It’s non-sexual and should always be SFW.
People might use comfort items like stuffies, pacis, cartoons, or soft blankets.
It helps some people feel safe, comforted, and emotionally secure.
Age dreaming (sometimes called age sliding in certain contexts) is when someone daydreams or fantasizes about being a different age, but without actually regressing. It’s more of a creative, fun, or identity-based experience, and isn’t always tied to coping or mental health.
It can be like imagining yourself as a kid, teen, or even a different age entirely.
It’s often more about aesthetic, comfort, or self-expression.
Unlike regression, people in an age dream state usually stay aware of their current age and don’t mentally shift.
Why Might Someone Regress?
To escape overwhelming emotions like anxiety, depression, or stress.
As a way to feel safe during or after trauma or flashbacks.
To manage dissociation or emotional shutdowns.
Many autistic and ADHD individuals naturally regress when overstimulated, under pressure, or seeking comfort.
Regression can help with emotional regulation or sensory overwhelm.
It brings back the warm, safe feeling of being cared for or protected.
Helps with inner healing, especially for unmet childhood needs.
Some regress to recreate a childhood they never had.
Regression can be part of reconnecting with your inner child.
It allows people to explore past emotions in a safe, nurturing way.
Sometimes encouraged in therapy for healing purposes.
Some people regress because it’s cozy and fun!
Playing with toys, watching cartoons, or cuddling stuffies brings joy and relaxation—no deep reason needed.
Voluntary vs Involuntary?
Voluntary regression is when someone chooses to enter a younger headspace on purpose.
You decide when, where, and how to regress.
You might use triggers like cartoons, stuffies, or soft music.
It's usually done for comfort, self-care, or fun.
You stay aware of your current age even if you’re acting younger.
Involuntary regression happens without trying or planning it—it just happens, usually in response to emotional or mental triggers.
Can be caused by trauma, stress, overstimulation, or flashbacks.
You might suddenly feel younger, helpless, or confused.
It’s often harder to control or snap out of.
Sometimes people don’t realize they’ve regressed until afterward.
Disclaimers !
Note that age regression/dreaming is ALWAYS 100% NON-KINK/SFW. Age regression is usually used as a coping mechanism; do not make fun of anyone's regression. Respect a regressor's boundaries. SYSTEMS ARE 100% VALID WHEN THEY HAVE LITTLE ALTERS! Terms that are nsfw are such as cgl, ddlg, kink, littlespace (sometimes, unfortunately!) and most abbreviations. Appropriate abbreviations are things like Agere, Agereg, Petre, Agedre, Petdre, Cg (just caregiver, or crgv or a less similar to cgl abbreviation.) SFW meaning safe for work. all age regression is SFW. there is no such thing as NSFW agere; that's just kink invading privacy. Minors & Adults are both capable of age regressing or caregiving. there is not a "right" way to regress other than keeping kink out of the community.