Reblog To Send Your Mutuals A Hug. Maybe Just The Thought Is Enough To Cheer Them Up 🥺

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I am here for the "bad" survivors.

I am here for people who don't perform perfectly as they recovered from their trauma and abuse.

I am here for people who weren't believed.

I am here for people who went back, who reached out, who were unsure about what was happening to them until they were.

I am here for people who behaved chaotically and uncharacteristically in reaction to their trauma.

I am here for people who screamed, yelled, or hit back.

I am here for people who froze, stayed silent, or couldn't fight back.

I am here for people who couldn't get their stories straight, because their own memories of what happened were so fractured by the trauma.

I am here for people who's boundaries became rigid and impermeable as they tried to create a new sense of safety in their life.

I am here for people who lost all boundaries, who felt unsafe setting any boundaries in the wake of having them violated.

Whatever happened that makes you feel like you were a "bad" survivor, I am here for you.

There are no "bad" survivors because there are no "good" survivors. Surviving is hard.

Kankri, genuinly

Hi! Urr... I've read your tags in the nekro post, about you being gay aro/ace so, happy ace day!!! 🎉

Sorry if you didn't asked for a happy ace day today. I don't mean to let you uncomfortable. Its just that your insecurity is something that never reached my friends group and we full of recently discovered assexual ppl so, seeing how everyone discovers and is insecure about it in different ways makes it clearer and clearer how bullshit heteronormativity is and how much shit ace/aro ppl have to take.

Anyways, happy your own level of sexual attraction day! ✨️

I love you so much, anon, thank you!

This made my day, seriously. I hope you have a happy day every day of your life forever!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

Who new id find another thing to be anxious about!! Life really is full of little surprises huh!

Shoutout to sleepy selfshippers. Reblog if you’re a selfshipper and also tired as fuck.

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i'm so tired of the yaoi-ification of mlm ships where people feel the need to make one of them (usually the fandom-assigned bottom) into a teeny tiny waifish twink and the other into a huge musclebound super aggro guy (usually the fandom-assigned top) i know this is like a thing many people have been saying for years but i just feel like it has never actually gotten better in fandom spaces. the fatphobia of it, the gender essentialism, the homophobia, it's all so fucking annoying it makes me want to scream