Reblog To Confusion Reminded Me, Another Thing Even I Often Have To Remind Myself Is That Honestly This
reblog to confusion reminded me, another thing even i often have to remind myself is that honestly this applies to platonic relationships, really ANY relationship.
a healthy relationship w urself is the foundation to having a good relationship with anyone else, bc you're just happier! you can stand up for yourself! and you just become a much nicer person to be around when ur not filled w self loathing 24/7.
yeah sorry chat u do gotta love urself too. no other way around it rip
GO FUCKING LOVE YOURSELF TODAY πͺπͺπͺπͺ
do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?
hear me out.
sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"
because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc
i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!
i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.
you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.
i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.
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So when my niece wore dog ears to school it was "cute" and "quirky" but when I wear them to work
hi im new
stinky instagram user here except im gay so i thought tumblr would be more fitting (thank u annie)
how do i get started do i just like post my art and tag it with general art tags
also does anyone see this
drew @onehundredgar 's (old?) sona, got bored and rendered it asw LOL i loooove color
here's an older version unrendered version that i think is also a vibe, just diff vibes
i really missed drawing just for the sake of drawing smth fun, so this was really nice
OH MY GOD TYSM DUDE SO SO SWEET OF YOU ππ
arduino boards!!! omfg so nostalgic!
we actually DID use them for our compsci classes in 9th grade, and it was genuinely SO fun. like the most fun ive had in our entire design course tbh, i miss it dearly.
took some digging up but i found an old vid i made where i tried to make it play the sky: children of the light theme HAHA, never finished it though (i think i actually sent it to our server a long time ago @astravox). it's nothing mind-blowing, actually it's a bit off, but i wanted to show it anyway >:D
BONUS: we also made a light that would activate via sensors. very swag. i think i just copy & pasted the code tho i am not that smart LOL
honestly i prob still have the board at home but i have no idea where it is. maybe i'll try looking for it again or getting another one when i have the time again!! thank u for reminding me of this very pleasant memory <3
ohh. ha. haha.
robots/mechanical things
ok so there are arduino boards that are pretty cheap and if your school has any semblance of a comp sci program they probably have one so you can borrow their stuff too
it's rly easy to start programming with it; when you're done, just hit a button and your board should start doing the thing it was told to do. there are some pre-made robots you can also buy and program (I argued with an rc car once) or you can build your own with motors
my robot expert certification btw:
space and stars and the like
I'm not that smart π but! ik the hubble space telescope actually has a gallery and it's sick. all the photos are published under CC 4.0 too π₯
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thinking about putting a gay couple (my ocs) and trans girl into my mass-printed schoolwide newsletter cover gang ππππ
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an accurate depiction of our academic life, thank u confusion ππ
every time I make a new friend it's like oh nooooo the persona I curate for the public where I somewhat seem like I'm holding it tgt is now SHATTERED you have now unlocked Rainn+ with special access to my unresolved insecurities... Now pls still think I'm cool and worth talking to ππππ
cw: (unrealistic) full thickness burns
it's just a burning memory.
CWMCC DAY 1
BLOSSOM / BURN
had a character who fit both prompts so i thought why not! i'm sorry babygirl we had to set you on fire for the plot π
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