My old blog got t worded so I’m back now!!! I used to be raybugthe-radfem so if any of my mooties find me that’d be lovely!!! Here’s a redone intro:
I’m a minor and a lesbian
Im black and Indo Caribbean
I’m Canadian
I am anti SW, anti surrogacy, anti capitalist, pro-choice and gender critical
I love riot grrrl stuff, musical theatre, reading and writing and have recently taken an interest in pottery.
DNI:
Males, 13>, TRAs/gender culties
You do not have a right to someone's body, time or companionship just because you identify as the sex they're attracted to. You can say no to someone for absolutely any reason, including being trans. To claim otherwise is just rape culture. 20 years ago if a lesbian said they didn't want to date a male, and somebody replied with "I think you need to examine that," that would've been seen as homophobic so what happened?
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Acknowledging that you are a threat to her THREE YEAR OLD DAUGHTER doesn’t make the mother the oppressor. It’s so annoying how much these males want to be the victim. This is gross.
HE was trying so hard to make himself look like the victim. And he was refusing to call the little girl's mother a MOTHER rather than parent. He shouldn't be allowed to make women and little girls uncomfortable by using the women's bathroom.
And by him using "parent" that is just another way of trying to erase women. Just like "birthing person", ect. He gives pedf vibes. Disgusting.
We are never making it out of the patriarchy holy shit
"BDSM Activism" might just be the dumbest, most unnecessary form of activism there is. Who is oppressing you in your own bedroom? Who's stopping you from watching your porn and reading/writing your fiction? In what society does sexual violence need defending and glorifying? In what society is it unacceptable?
Literally my mom and her bfs dynamic except us kids have to pull his load too. The best example is how on his day off he doesn’t leave he couch, staying on his video game or watching anime. Meanwhile when my mom has a day off she cleans even if the house is relatively clean, cooks dinner and so much more. He makes more but they still do “50/50” hes also more ppl. He has 6 kids and my mom and I are two ppl. Don’t date a man, esp a man child.
Imagine being in one of those 50/50 marriages and you want to make a really nice dinner. You make it every night as well because your husband explains to you that you should only do what you're good at and he simply "isn't good at cooking", in return though, he will take out the trash when you remind him. Because this is a 50/50 household after all and he WANTS to pull his weight.
So you plan the dinner on your free time, then you take the shared household bank card that you both fill up with the same amount of money each month - 5% of his salary and 50% of yours because it's equal and how is it his fault that you chose a low paying job? This is 50/50!
You buy all the groceries, come home and clean up after your husband who doesn't work longer hours than you but he has explained that his job is more mentally exhausting so he will be more tired than you when he comes home. You wouldn't understand that with your physically and emotionally taxing job, you don't need that much rest. Besides, It doesn't even bother him that it's messy!
Then you prepare all the food for an hour or so, while it's in the oven you take the trash out because you've asked your husband to do it three times already and it's still there because he is simply too exhausted right now. You also load the laundry with both of your clothes, and fold the clean one because if your husband did it it would just be destroyed or never folded. You set the table, bring out the food, pour the drinks and when it's done you do the dishes because your husband simply "isn't good at doing dishes".
This is equality for men btw.
After dinner your husband sais he did a good job cooking the meal.
This is what dads who claim to have made their children sound like.