I Get Really Upset Whenever My “friend” (will Get Into That At A Later Date) Or Family Who Im Out

I put on Twitter that a cute date idea for me (a cis woman with reproductive issues) and my boyfriend (a trans man) would be for us to get a hysterectomy together and someone replied:

chat this is my first day ever doing an am shift (7a-3a) and while running to my lyft bc i didnt want to be late, i fucking ate shit and FELL

thank god my house is on a hill and no one saw me 😭

good morning ig 💀

The way some people don't even TRY to think about sexualities or genders more deeper then just "cis and trans people" is insane like they'll only think about binary trans women and men and binary women and men but like y'know what type of binary I mean, right? Everyone completely forgets multigender people exist or abrosexual/fluid sexuality, nonbinary people in general and it pisses me off! Some people will even act like they support multigender people and nonbinary people, maybe also abrosexual people and try to be "inclusive" but when there's a complex identity, they think like a caveman!

"women are non men and never men! And men? Same thing! Nonbinary people? Don't exist right now cause I'm caveman brain right now, and cis? Nope no one else can be cis except 100% binary cishet people and multigender? What's that?? And identifying with your gender at birth? Only cis people do that! And cis people can't EVER be trans!" LIKE OMG SHUT UP!

like I swear someone on fuckin TikTok or Pinterest could hear something like...I don't know a flag for people who identify with their gender at birth but are also trans and immediately forget nonbinary people and multigender people exist!!

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trying to find which saniro character i kin / who’s aesthetic i mainly like is hard

my options are

> my melody (who i used to claim when i was cis)

> badtz-maru (happy birthday badtz-maru btw and who i think mainly matches me now)

> keroppi

> cinnamonroll

tbh im probably gonna do them all LMAO they all are my style in some way (mel and cina is coquette, badtz is grunge/gothic for me (plus i see him as black so even better for me LOL), and keroppi is the forest / earthy)

i need to interact with more happy things. its the reason why i joined tumblr and stepped away from twitter.

my TL is just.. negative.

might purge a bunch of posts

I SAID THAT THEY WERE GOING TO GO AFTER AO3 TOO, AND SOME OF Y'ALL FUCKERS OVER ON REDDIT SAID I WAS OVERREACTING AND FEAR-MONGERING. FUCK YOU, I WAS RIGHT. AND FUCK YOU DUMBASS WHITE WOMEN THAT VOTED TRUMP AND SAID "Well I thought we liked morally ambiguous men so..." GO FUCK YOURSELVES.

And I KNOW that seems childish to be focusing on this but I feel SO FUCKING VINDICATED because I was talking about this months prior about how they WANT to ban sexually explicit material because they WANT TO SILENCE, CRIMINALIZE AND MAKE OUT MARGINALIZED GROUPS TO BE SEXUAL DEVIANTS. AND I WAS TOLD THAT I WAS FEAR-MONGERING.

I HATE, HATE HATE, how I was gaslit into believing that bullshit >:(

And guess what, you can't download your fav ao3 queer/smut fics bc these things either once they go through with this, because that's akin to possessing CSEM. Yes, you may or may not be legally required to delete that story (fanfic or not) you've invested sweat, tears and sleepless nights into.

Consuming, creating or owning sexually explicit, EDUCATIONAL OR NOT, COULD PUT YOU ON THE SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY.

I'M NOT AMERICAN, I'M JUST MAD AND TERRIFIED BECAUSE HISTORY IS CLEARLY REPEATING ITSELF.

we do not "love" to bring this up. it is traumatic. it is dysphoria inducing. it is capable of taking the lives of trans men/mascs that are forced to bring a child into this world against their will. stop fucking invalidating our trauma and oppression you absolute fucking transphobic asshole.

no one is fucking saying this is a privilege for trans women/fems. you are making up arguments in your head because you cannot handle the fact that you are being so disgustingly transphobic toward us so you have to pretend we are saying shit that was never said.

i will not be fucking silent about this. no trans men/mascs should be forced into silence when bringing up our very real systemic oppression. if it bothers you, then look inward.

bamanaba breamd…….

does anyone on this site enjoy Banana Bread?