Not my proudest gut reaction and I keep thinking about it because of all the levels of social f*cked-up-ness this whole moment implies
Even if you live alone, you probably don’t necessarily get lots of quality alone-time. There’ll be work, social feeds, friends, coworkers, and maybe even nearby family. There’ll be daily routines, podcasts, and the head-filling patterns of every day.
When you’re away somewhere—anywhere—the patterns break. Lunch is whenever, bedtime is whenever, you can turn off notifications and use the excuse that roaming charges are awful. You can tune out and have quiet time and be with yourself, and be yourself.
You can even have that quiet time in the noisiest of places—like a crowded festival city—because none of the noise matters. You won’t be monitoring for familiar voices, local rumours, local bullies, local anything. The noise will be chatter; a texture.
Aspec applications: Aspec travellers can have a little more to tune out than others. If you’re somewhere “vacationy” you’ll probably feel like you’re surrounded by allonormativity and amatonormativity, BUT it’s not impossible to tune out.
Those couples and throuples and families aren’t there to think about you, they’re there to worry about each other (and argue about menus and stress over a hundred other things). If anything, they’re probably a little jealous of how you have the freedom to really just be there. Give off your best “being there” vibe, and thrive on that until your concerns fade away and you can just enjoy being yourself again.
Can I get aroace Arctozolt please ?
I think I posted this already but since I don’t know when I did I’ll just go ahead and repost it here
As someone who's had crushes before (and don't know if I'm lithromantic or if I just fall out easily), I have to say, amatonormativity fucking SUCKS.
"Yeah if you like someone, you must want them to be only YOURS!1!1!1! That's right, no friends, no other relationship, just you and that person!!! Your ENTIRE life must revolve around them", What??? Why would you need to be possessive to like someone? Why can't people just chill? Not only stuff like polyamory exists, but also cutting someone from everyone but you is fucking toxic as hell and a recipe for disaster.
Why can't most people just chill and be like "Yeah you can like someone and have a normal life, it's not that life changing just a cool thing that happens to some people, but you can be perfectly fine without it"? I swear to whatever's up cooking the universe, some people are showing monogamy, toxic romantic ideals and amatonormativity down everyone's throats way too much. No wonder why some allos are arophobic, they think they're going to die without a romantic relationship, which is... far from healthy.
Greninja
Greninja is good.
He was my starter in X.
So I drawded him.
Also on deviantart: http://coldbed.deviantart.com/art/Greninja-549837795
Does Axinite still have two tounges?
yep
barbie island princess!
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my shop
02 - The frog witch
Boku no Hero Academia - Asui Tsuyu
The trading cards are officially set to launch on June 19th! Here’s some pics Cryptozoic shared from a case check!