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Manifesting Advice from Someone Who’s Been in a Vicious Cycle

I’ve been in the cycle. The crying, the overthinking, the quitting, the searching all over the internet for “how to manifest” or “how to shift.” I used to get so frustrated watching others say “just assume” while I sat there wondering why nothing was working or if it was really that easy. This post is for people like me—who are tired, confused, or over it. Listen I don't know it all or gotten it perfect. I’m still learning and breaking out of old habits. But here’s what’s helped me personally and hopefully it helps you too!

1. You’ll Always Hear the Same Thing

No matter where you look, everyone says the same thing: assume it’s yours and live in the end. That’s it. Some people just say it in fancier words or longer formats. I wasted so much time looking for a different answer when it was right in front of me—but it really is that simple.

2. When You Live in the End, Time Stops Being a Problem

When you're fully in the mindset that your desire is already yours, you're not stressed about time. You just feel like it's done. I noticed I stopped feeling desperate or in a rush. I was just chilling and felt fulfilled. Because why would you worry about something you already have?

3. Stop Overthinking It

Overthinking will drive you insane. It’s like you get stuck in a pit of what ifs. You don’t need 50 techniques or a perfect routine. Sometimes you just need to chill and stop making it harder than it is.

4. You Are Your Subconscious

Your subconscious isn't this greater being you have to perform for. It’s YOU. The moment you decide something is yours and you stick with that decision—your subconscious listens. You don’t have to beg. Just decide. And trust.

5. Don’t Let the 3D Trick You

When the outside world shows you the opposite of what you want, it’s easy to spiral. I used to do it all the time. Someone would say something, and I’d immediately start Googling how to fix it, panicking like it was gone or it never happened . But now? I just mentally say, “Oh, guess the 3D or someone didn't’t get the memo yet.” Then I go back to assuming it’s mine.

6. Detach from the How

You don’t question how you’re having fun while you’re having fun—you just are. Same with your manifestation. Let go of needing to know how it’s coming. Just know that it has.

7. Embody It, Even If It Feels Weird at First

I used to and still kinda ask myself, “How do I think like the version of me who already has it?” It felt awkward at first. So I started small— shopping online for what I would wear, journaling like I was already living her life. Creating playlists to help give that feeling. That helped me realize: she isn’t some fantasy version of me. She’s me. They are you.

8. Nothing Can Slow It Down Unless You Say It Can

This one might sound confusing, but hear me out: nothing can mess up your manifestation unless you believe it can. Wavering? Overthinking? Doubt? These things only affect you if you assume they do. If you don’t give them power, they won’t have any.

9. Even in Hard Times—Affirm and visualize Anyway

I know how hard it is to “just assume” when your world feels like it’s falling apart. I’ve been there. I’ve sat there wondering, how am I supposed to believe I already have what I want when everything around me says otherwise? And honestly all I can say is—affirm anyway. You don’t have to do it for 10 hours straight. You can affirm once. You can visualize quickly. Even if you’re sad. Even if you don’t feel it yet. Your subconscious doesn’t see what’s going on in the 3D—it doesn’t need outside proof. It believes what you tell it. I also assume that it only sees what you visualize.

That’s all I’ve got for now. If you’re in the cycle, I see you. I’ve been there, and sometimes I’m still there. This stuff takes patience and self-compassion. Be kind to yourself, keep going, and don’t give up on what you want. You got this and I believe you. Have an amazing day!!! MUCH LOVEE 💕💕💕.

Also this is my first post!