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the people that matter shouldn't care, but you should care about why you want to change. Is it that u don't want to be that anymore because that's not who you really are, or do you want people to see you differently so then they like you?

don't try to be quieter/act differently just to have a different image if that's not what's true to you. If it's more about how that's how you would prefer to be because it makes u more comfortable, then be it.

remember that it shouldn't be a decision really on how you want to be, just try to be who you are naturally if that makes sense

Either way, however you are shouldn't make the people you care about stop liking you (if it does then they aren't worth it).

Don't worry and just be yourself. I know that's an overused phrase that doesn't seem to mean anything when u hear it over and over again but actually think about it. Be yourself. don’t be afraid of change

(im basing some of this on how you said "in public" bcs that sounds like changing wouldn't be for yourself. and coming from someone who used to be more open about who they were, you don't want to be stuck not being able to be yourself. I could be wrong since I'm just assuming from what you wrote so js ignore if it's the other way and yeah if changing would be closer to who u are then do it!!)

im definitely repeating myself a lot and I don’t know how to phrase things so I’ll shut up now, but hope this helps at least a little or helps you think about it

have a good day/night :3

thank u :3