…happy Birthday Dear Husband (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)

While reading one of the developer's responses, this meme came to my mind lol(⌒―⌒) (the meme was created with great love for Kei(´ ∀ ` *))(Kei belongs to @minevn)

WAAAAAAY~(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧! Your work is incredible (☆ω☆)! You are insanely talented, thank you very much for the gorgeous art (with your permission) *tight hug(/ω＼) (And many thanks for permission to use)

I really love this game and I'm super excited for its future developments! That's why I've created two mobile wallpapers to let Red/Redacted guard our phones. Feel free to use them!💜🖤💜🖤 我很喜歡這個遊戲，超級期待後續的發展! 所以我繪製了兩款手機桌布，想讓Red/Redacted守護我們的手機，歡迎大家使用💜🖤💜🖤

I continue to rework old works

Just a silly quick night drawing based on the new hyperfixation LOL (Vic belongs to @starsetven)

ADHD tips from a girlie who was diagnosed in her late twenties and has had little to no support since and is being so brave about it:

1) Make it easy, make it accessible, and make it appealing. If anything this is the most important thing, all tips going forward are based around this concept.

2) That thing you think would help you but you haven’t bought/done it yet because you’re technically surviving without it? Buy it, you need it. It doesn’t matter if people around you might think it’s wasteful or that you’re lazy, you’re not, just do it, trust me.

3) Expanding on tip #2, if you’re like me and eggs are your main source of protein because they’re quick and easy and feeding yourself is a near insurmountable task- buy yourself an electric egg cooker, make a bunch of hard boiled eggs and keep them in your fridge for quick and easy protein to add to any meal (handful of crackers, a hard boiled egg and a banana? 5 star meal right there. Or mash them up with some mayo for egg salad sandwiches). Other easy proteins include: potstickers (put them in instant ramen), edamame (they have microwaveable snack packs), chickpeas (put in salads!), beans (can of beans microwaved with shredded cheese and some tortilla chips), peanut butter (with crackers, apple and cheese, adult lunchable style), and tofu (cut into cubes, throw them into a ziplock with some seasoning and potato starch, shake that shit up and bake it until crispy).

4) Spend a little extra (if you are able) on daily use items that excite you, it will make you more likely to remember/want to do said daily task. For example: the only reason I remember to use sunscreen is because I bought some fancy japanese sunscreen that smells like roses so I get excited to use it, same for laundry detergent and body wash! there’s a gajillion different body wash scents out there, switch it up!

5) If there’s a task you continuously struggle with take a moment to think about which part of the task is making it difficult, it could be something even as small as “I don’t put my dirty clothes in the hamper because my hamper has a lid on it and lifting the lid is one step too many-”, sounds a little stupid huh? But trust your gut, it’s not stupid if it works. See tip #2 and BUY A HAMPER WITHOUT A LID.

6) If you are having trouble starting a task, break the task down further, sometimes the way I start a task is just by going “Ok step 1) stand up-“ and so forth. Don’t worry about the task as a whole just take it one step at a time.

7) If you’re halfway through a task and have to stop, leave it out. All this, “Put things away when you’re done with them.” is bullshit. you will be much more likely to finish the task if restarting it is easier because you left it out plus it’s a visual reminder. You can also create faux deadlines like “I gotta finish this project before my friend comes over on tuesday because after I finish it I can clean off the dinner table.” etc.

8) It’s okay to outsource tasks and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, humans are designed to ask for, and to require help (what do babies do when they’re first born?? cry for help!!) ask for help and receive help without shame, if it makes your life better, you are WINNING.

9) If you have one big overwhelming task that you think you need to get done before anything else, but you feel motivated to do other tasks, do those other tasks first, it’s okay. Otherwise in all likelihood (at least in my case) you’ll put everything off until the last minute and then have to do said overwhelming task and those other tasks won’t get done at all. Doing those smaller tasks also lowers the mental load and you can use them as a motivation launch pad to tackle bigger things.

10) If you notice you tend to not put something away/forget to do something, perhaps consider moving and storing the item closer to where it ultimately ends up or where you are more likely to see it. For example, my makeup, pills, and mail are all stored on my desk because that’s where I tend to do my makeup, take my pills and deal with my mail. I used to store my pills in my bathroom medicine cabinet but all too often I would forget because they weren’t in my line of sight. Now that they’re on my desk, I have multiple chances per day to pass by them, go “oh I gotta take those.” and take them.

11) Open storage, open storage, OPEN STORAGE.

12) Motivation can look like all kinds of things. sometimes the only reason I get out of bed is because I remember I have a fun snack and I get to go eat it if I get up. It’s okay to lean into those simple “animal-brain” type motivators, you’ll eat because then you can use that fun new kitchen gadget you got a daiso? Neat. you’ll shower because then you can paint your nails that fun new color you got? Fantastic. You’ll go to the dmv and do that annoying thing because you’ll take yourself out for boba after? Superb. Lean-IN to those small motivators, they aren’t stupid or childish, they are VITAL.

13) Don’t buy into the cult of “if it’s worth doing, do it properly” it’s guaranteed to set you up for failure. If it’s worth doing, do it in whatever capacity you are able to. I put sunscreen on once a day because that’s fucking better than not doing it at all and I sure as all hell will fail at reapplying it multiple times a day. If it’s worth doing, do it half-assed babieeee.

Go forth and prosper!!! xoxo ✌️🩵

I recently watched the movie The Addams Family (1991) and I just fell in love with this movie≧ω≦! Morticia and Gomez are simply icons of relationships, every moment with them was accompanied by my squeals from their awesomeness≥3≤! Cool/smart Morticia and passionate/flaming Gomez are so perfect and complement each other like dark chocolate and sweet and sour teaヾ(≧▽≦)o! I'm going to watch all possible series and comics based on them just for them(○ﾟεﾟ○)! And I seriously wore a black dress just for this movie lol Every time they said “Cara Mia”, “Mi Vida” and another Spanish expression, my heart did a backflip(◐∇◐), making me swoon from their coolness and cuteness(っ´▽`)っ! And you can write a separate poem about their style because they are like dark chocolate and cherryヾ(¯∇￣๑)!

Angel: This guy is my ex Ren/REDACTED: Angel, that's not the best way to say we're married

"A forlorn spirit peacefully watches time go on."

что-то здесь не так... Спасибо за отсылочку

I continue to redraw old art (Eden belongs to @parasocialitevn)

Just trying to draw Idol(?) Eden (⌒_⌒;)

(Eden belongs to @parasocialitevn)