i hate coming out. how is you not knowing my gender a me problem. figure it out idiot.
confusing comic about existing as a trans person during confusing times of trans visibility.
hey dude im on Loves You island and all of your friends are here too. what time are u planning on getting here? we are gonna order pizza
So I wanted to have the Nonbinary flag as my hair and since I am crazy like that I thought it through with my girlfriend (how we should arrange the colors, my original plan was to do it with horizontal lines) and then just let my sister do her work!
We had to do it over the corse of two days since on day one we bleached, cut and dyed the purple, yellow and white (color correction) parts!
Then on the next day I bought some more bleach and we bleached the white a third time (rip my hair) and dyed the black.
I love it so much! And even though people might not recognize it (someone thought I was a huge basketball fan XD) it is great to wear a part of my identity on my head!
I'm fairly new to rebloging so I hope it's okay I'm adding to your post.
I just wanna share my experience with top surgery and having doubts before hand:
I started working towards getting top surgery when I was around 18 and because I was still in school and live (plus the fact this shit just tends to take forever) I only slowly got everything together for the surgery.
That meant I started the process 4 years before my actual surgery date. When I started I was fairly sure but the closer I got to the surgery the more doubts started to occupy my brain. I had a lot of therapy in the meantime and started liking myself more, which is good. However it unfortunately had the negative side effect of a part of me using this as an argument against top surgery. Because if I can learn to like myself I can learn to be okay with my boobs right?
I still don't think that's wrong, I think that yes I could have learned to be okay, be neutral towards my boobs instead of the major dislike that fueled my decision 4 years prior to walk down this path.
However despite that argument I decided to stick with my decision and get top surgery. And let me tell you: I'm so glad I did.
Because after nearly 8 months I can say with no doubt it was the right decision for me. It was the right decision not because I couldn't have accepted my boobs at some point but because without them I'm happy in a way I didn't know I could be with my body.
I look in the mirror and I get this happy giddy feeling in my stomach of seeing myself in a normal ass T-shirt but flat. I am overjoyed at dressing up fancy because it means I get to wear all the cool dress shirts I aquired over the years that finally look exactly how I also wanted them to look like.
Even my friends and family told me that the way I look makes more sense kinda. Like I look more like myself than before. Which yeah I do because I didn't feel comfortable with my boobs but also because even if I would have been alright with them I would never felt as enthusiastic about them as I do about my flat chest!
Having had top surgery made me happy and feel home in my body in a way that I didn't fully grasp beforehand. And I am so happy I stuck with my decision and didn't let the doubts get to me ^^
the good news is this *probably* won’t actually push back my timeline for top surgery, but I still let myself have a little tantrum about it because we respect all feelings in this house
This time it’s for the duck fans! Have you seen any of these floating around the place? I’ve drawn a heck of a lot of duck comics- so many that they have their own section on my (strictly non-profit) website! Here’s some samples picked from my readers’ favourites-
As you can see most of them feature this guy- Gladstone Gander- and the above panel was the from the first comic I made with the intention of getting more people to know about him. I had no idea where it would lead…
Some of them have even been translated into German! ain’t that dandy?
You can read that entirely for free on the same website as before, please check it out! Without your help I can’t keep making content like TPoH or the duck comics alongside- after all, the more funds I make from my own work, the more time I have to make it! You may have noticed I’ve not been able to post much duck comic work lately and this is very much related to the cause.
Cartoonists have to pay rent and bills, not just draw duck bills! Please signal boost with anyone who might be interested and help me get back on quack!