Are all of these relationships like this? I nearly entered into one recently. It was very alluring, but she was very demanding( ie money) reluctantly I terminated our contract. I am just curious. You seem to have a genuine relationship. Who better to ask?
First, the specifics of the dynamic will naturally vary from couple to couple. People are just into different things. The structure of my relationship with my Goddess wife will be very different from many others. However, there are some key foundational components that all should possess. Trust, respect, and mutual value must be there. The best ones will also be built on love. Also, it goes without mentioning, but consent is paramount. Without consent, you just have an abusive relationship.
The D/s community, and specifically the D/s FLR community is plagued by fake online Dommes that are just after your money. They are all over Tumblr. At least once a day, I am messaged by one. They are scammers who will go to great lengths to convince you that financial domination is always part of a D/s dynamic. That’s simply not true. A healthy D/s relationship will respect the limits of each partner. While findom (financial domination) is a kink within the community, that’s something that must be agreed upon, not something that is forced on someone. Early on in the relationship, limits and boundaries should be established. If you’re not into findom, make that clear. A true genuine Domme will respect your limits and will not force you to cross them.
You may refer to me as “Sissy”.First and foremost, if you are a Domme looking for a submissive or slave, DO NOT MESSAGE ME. This is a NSFW blog. If adult content offends you or you are under 18, please leave. Search my blog for #top post and you will see all of my most popular memes.I’m an owned, collared, and married 38 y/o beta, secret sissy slave to my dominant Mommy wife who I live to serve, obey, and pleasure. I have over ten years experience in the D/s and FLR lifestyle. I make captions for both male and female Dommes and submissives. While I’m a beta by nature, I do have switch tendencies. Most of the memes I share are something I have lived before. Some contain a degree of fantasy. Others are pure fantasy. If you like my work, please like and reblog it. If I catch you stealing my work, I will block you.
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